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10 Jul 2012, 10:53 am

HisDivineMajesty wrote:

I'll summarise everything.
During research I've looked into, these were the results:

Women said they cared a great deal about personality; they cared more about status and physical dominance in men.
Men said they cared a great deal about personality; they cared more about physical attractiveness in women.

This is seen rather easily in practical situations. I'm currently away from home, near the beach for a few days. There is just one type of couple here. Men who are easily half a foot taller than their partners, in fashionable clothes, with relatively-large amounts of muscles, dating pretty women who look several years younger than them. That's all. I've yet to see an exception after seeing dozens of couples.

Men want physical attractiveness; women want both emotional/physical and material status.

How do you explain Ron Jeremy then? Money, or a lack of physical proportion in some areas?

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10 Jul 2012, 10:55 am

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If you look like Mick Avory, give me a call. :wink:

Would he have to have a comparable voice too, or just be able to lip synch to the recordings? :-)

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10 Jul 2012, 10:56 am

HisDivineMajesty wrote:

So going by your very scientific observation that is how it works out.

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10 Jul 2012, 11:09 am

I agree with minotaurheadcheese. Also, I'm with the people who say that this will vary greatly from man to man. In my vast experience (okay, but probably more vast than many people here), *everyone*, man or woman, basically wants to feel some level of unconditional support in life. What form that support takes is highly individual, whether it be sex on demand, material comfort, emotional comfort, etc.

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10 Jul 2012, 11:15 am

My ideal mate would be with the following characteristics:

1) She is what I find aesthetically pleasing. No, she doesn't have to put her makeup on or always do her hair, but she should care about her appearance and invest in that. I will do the same. I would not be with someone I found physically unattractive or even revolting.

2) She can cook very, very well and loves doing it. I will clean the house, kitchen, and dishes and she will cook. Why? Because I am a terrible cook outside of grilling.

3) She is ambitions and a career.

4) Personality is sweet, caring, gentle, and a pacifist.

5) Her sense of humor and my own feed off each other. We can laugh together.

6) Sex life is decent.

7) Cannot be obese. For some women, it works for me but for most it just turns me off. I want a partner that will be with me for a long time. Obesity shortens the life span.

8 )Has a nice butt and boobs. And she doesn't mind me making her feel good! =)

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10 Jul 2012, 11:26 am

OliveOilMom wrote:

HisDivineMajesty wrote:

How do you explain Ron Jeremy then? Money, or a lack of physical proportion in some areas?

money, because women were being paid to have sex with him. As is usually the case in porn. His fame is for being the average guy with a big dick banging pornstars. Not for being a casanova

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10 Jul 2012, 1:20 pm

I have absolutely no clue. Period.

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10 Jul 2012, 2:16 pm

OliveOilMom - yup money and then status. Being porn star no 1 is something. But... he is star for men, not women I think.

But what about Ross Jeffries, Mystery, Style (Strauss)?

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10 Jul 2012, 2:17 pm

Shatbat wrote:

Oh, I sure like some good cooking, but expecting my parner to do that for me would be just plain wrong. I'm actually looking forward to make some brigadeiros for her, now that I learnt how to

I didn't mean it like that

"What Men Really Want", I read it as "What they find attractive in a woman" aka "What a woman, who wants to attract a man, might want to know". I would want to know that being able to cook is an advantage.

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10 Jul 2012, 2:22 pm

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But what about Ross Jeffries, Mystery, Style (Strauss)?

Trying. Thats it. They go to clubs known for having lots of women and just go approaching every single one from top to bottom until one says yes. Its no special code, its no manipulation, hell its not even magic. Its all a numbers game for them, wether they know they are playing that way or not.

Its kinda like going to a casino and betting on a table for the entire night, you're bound to win atleast once.

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10 Jul 2012, 2:49 pm

Jeez... I just want a woman to LOVE me (and that includes not emasculating me at every opportunity or wanting me to be "more like other men".)

In other words, love ME for exactly who and what I am right here and now... none of this "I can change him to be more what I want him to be" crap.

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10 Jul 2012, 2:53 pm

BlueMax wrote:

Amen. I think this is what women want, too (in my experience) and what I was trying to say, above.

{hugs for the hard time you're going through, BlueMax}

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10 Jul 2012, 3:06 pm

Good health, femininity, intelligence and a nice personality.

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10 Jul 2012, 3:08 pm

mv wrote:

BlueMax wrote:

Amen. I think this is what women want, too (in my experience) and what I was trying to say, above.

{hugs for the hard time you're going through, BlueMax}

Ditto ditto and ditto!! !!

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10 Jul 2012, 5:25 pm

marking the thread out of interest. i wouldn't presume to know what "most" men want, or even what any particular man wants, unless he tells me (or demonstrates in some obvious way).

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10 Jul 2012, 5:30 pm

delicious sammiches prepared and delivered sexily

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