Dating dilemma

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nessa you come off as desperate in your op. Most girls would have stopped replying to this guy had he said that before meeting...screams creep Have you been getting any other messages form guys you are in to?

Being not so tactful seems to be a popular problem.
I know I'm guilty of it often as well, though I usually realize it after a while.
I think you might find it hard to convince most people to fill out post date surveys though.

If his weight is that much of a problem for you I don't see why you should even bother with the date.
You already have 2 traits that you dislike about him, that are enough to question your date.
Are you going to give him a fair shake after that?

That said, give him a chance.
Depending on his height and amount of muscle 300 isn't exactly huge for a man.
I know because I'm almost there myself.
However its not something that he couldn't fix in a year if you two got serious and it was still a problem for you.
Speaking personally, I know I'd take much better care of myself if I had a girlfriend, so you may not even have to do much encouraging for him to lose the weight.

In the end its up to you though.

You could be what he needs to help him shift his weight... He could be gorgeous under the weight but no one ever gave him a chance... In fact, you often do find that people who have grown up a little heavy, when they lose the weight, they can actually be really attractive.

That's not ridiculously heavy anyway, ive been like 17 stone, with a good weight for me being like 14-15 stone... it took like 2 months to lose it once i found a good reason to do it... How tall is he?