What is the man/woman of your dreams like?

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She would be an Aspie. Phenomenally intelligent. A scientist or engineer. Passionate. And probably most important, for some incomprehensible reason, crazy for me.

Physically: Long red hair, green eyes and required by law to wear a sign on her back that says "Danger, curves ahead!"

I'm bisexual, so for the female, I like how you think. I have a definite weakness for curvy redheads, and intelligence is always a turn-on.

As for a guy, he'd have the same intelligence level. I'd want someone that isn't a bad boy, someone I don't have to struggle to be sure if he's into me (because he's emotionally available), into the same movies, books, and politics. Slightly taller than me, average build, dark hair, dark eyes, no facial hair, and beautiful skin.

Sense of humor, and able to deal with the Aspergers.

I just got a smoking hot mental image!

Someone who I can feel completely comfortable with. No trust issues or mind games or any of that ****, so we would both need to be ok with being direct. We could spend hours laughing together or just lazing around doing nothing at all. On the flipside, she could poke some fun at me and try to get me to come out of my comfort zone a little to see the outside world. Normally I might not care to find any new interest, but I think that with the right person it would be fun to try to see the world from her perspective, and it might not be so boring or scary. Overall I think that she would be a bit more maternal, or look after me, and would not mind if I wasn't your typical macho guy. I'm quirky and weird and eccentric and I like myself just fine, so I'm not going to make any major changes to myself or sell my soul for another person regardless of who they are.