Your Ideal PERSONALITY

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Me:
-female
-Mild Aspie
-Anything taller than 5' 5"
-Likes sports (to a degree)
-Either from Seattle or Los Angeles (but anywhere else is fine by me, too!)
-Loves to laugh
-The piercings/tattoos? Keep that to a minimum. Better yet, don't have any at all!
-Has a nice voice
-Willing to put up with who I am

I'll have more...... but this is a general list for me.

A bit more social than I am.
A little bit more experienced in life.
Mostly serious, but can relax and be silly around me.
Most enjoys TV shows and movies with intelligent characters.
Can enjoy a similar kind of humour
WANTS to communicate and work out problems rather than sulk and never talk to me.
Doesn't value sex over friendship; normal to low sex drive.
Does not take part in drinking and drug use.
Non-violent and unlikely to do impulsive, dangerous things.

Ok, the ideal personalities .

Intelligent but not pretentious.
Witty but not sarcastic (I don't get sarcasm).
Quiet but assertive.
Not a social butterfly but has a small circle of very close friends.
Needs a lot of alone time like me.
Not moody.
Not materialistic.
Kind but not a pushover.
Does not stress over small things.
Not a procrastinator.
Not a bragger.
Has a very good self control.

I doubt such person exists.

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Not sure I have anything too specific. A lot of these are just very basic traits:

-Intelligent
-Funny
-Completely honest, even if brutal.
-Artsy
-Peace loving
-Laid back
-Can't have a single ounce of prejudice towards anyone. Things like racism or sexism, etc. are disgusting.

I could ask for more, like religious or political views or even pettier things such as needing to have exactly the same interests. Thing is, life is too short to make a huge deal out of all of that, and so long as I can feel a deep, emotional connection to someone, we could put stuff like that aside.

- Probably someone between the ages of 17 - 20 (I'll be 18 next month)
- Someone in the New England area (i dont like internet dating, creepy to be honest)
- Male
- Aquarius (for some reason, most of the guys I like tend to be Aquarius)
- Messy hair, don't care what color...though I love blonde boys, gingers and blue hair.
- I like blue eyes and green eyes.
- Mild Aspergers, and maybe a bit of a mood disorder (Depression is horrible, but you know, I might be able to relate to someone like that better)
- Intelligent but not a know-it-all
- Honest. Truthful. Blunt.
- Against racism, sexism, homobigotry, ableism, etc.
- A similar music taste (I like 80's alternative, 90's indie, punk, grunge, old school rap/hip hop, etc.)
- A good taste in films and books would be nice too
- Empathetic (I know aspies are supposedly never empathetic...not true at all, imo. We just have a harder time expressing it, especially if we can't read emotions well. Personally, if I know someone's depressed or angry and I know specifically why, I feel it too, especially if I've gone through something similar)
- A good sense of humor
- Artsy + creative
- Whatever

Leftist.
Straight edge or close to it.
Wants marriage.
Atheist.

Found him.

An amalgam of "witty", "smart", "introverted", "with similar interests" and "playful" would shake me properly.

-Has own interests, accepts that I have mine. Bonus bonus(!) points if they overlap but not required
-Has a dry sense of humour or understands my sense of humour
-Likes doing silly things because they're silly. E.g. someone who's immature like me
-Likes urban exploring and going on adventures
-Doesn't tell me what to do or have to know where I am and what I'm doing all the time
-Doesn't get annoyed when I play music
-Likes eating more than 2 minute noodles, likes beer is a bonus, and likes chemistry and architecture is a super bonus
-Not a snob/elitist
-Likes animals and the outdoors
-Basic understanding of politics
-Can have a conversation with me and understands me to some degree

Nothing else is important

Ah I forgot an important one.

-Always puts my well-being before other expectations, and is looking out for my health and happiness.

What can I say? I always thought I had no luck. Obviously I was wrong, I am one lucky person.

Smart
Funny
Would be willing to accept my flaws
Likes staying in

I dunno, I had a brain fart after the last one.