Lmfao at this message this girl sent me

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she looks like the geico cavemen srs,

You should be flattered someone is interested in you. What if you had approached some girl who you found very attractive and instead of graciously rejecting you, she decided to tell all of her friends, and post online how some ugly "creep" approached her the other day, implied he was in the wrong for doing so and that he should have known better to approach someone so high and mighty as she?

You are ridiculing a person who has technically done nothing wrong and to be quite honest, that doesn't make you look very pretty. And I might also say, in this instance, you are acting rather NT, and in this instance, that isn't a compliment.

While i agree that he is acting like a dick and should have just kept it at "got a weird message" instead of all this fugly BS i find saying hes acting NT to be just as stupid. What does mental condition or lack there of have to do with how someone acts. Last i checked we arent all exactly the same.
Chances are OP isnt made for modeling either.

Individuals with AS do not so frequently attempt to acquire a group of allies in front of which to social shame an innocent, well meaning person.

who says they dont? Ive seen it happen here many times

yah im acting like a dic but it is what it is lol. The dif b/w me and this girl is that she can get laid if she wants to while it doesnt matter how charming, nice, funny I am..I won;t ever get a gf. that I am attracted to. So no I don't feel bad calling her ugly.

You have such a way with words, you big charmer.

lmao what can I say..I spea from the hvart. must sick of not getting a gf that I am attracted to. I just want one 18-25 yr old decent looking loving gf...is that too much to ask lol.

That's a really creepy and annoying. It's creepy that she would send that out of the blue, and annoying to expect all that from you.

Very strange. But you have to remember as ugly lonely and weird they may seem most of us give off the exact same impression to others on dating sites.

Maybe he's just bitter that even THIS gal turned him down?

[whispered:] such a meanie!!

with how you come across around here i cant imagine why

I think the key phrase is "that I am attracted to"

Perhaps she can get laid, but not necessarily by someone she is attracted to. Perhaps she doesn't want to get laid at all...that's usually not a very high priority of a woman. Apparently she wants a romantic relationship with a man she is attracted to, and how is it any different for her if she can't obtain what she wants either? It isn't different. You are both in the same boat as far as not being able to obtain what you want goes.

The only thing positive I can say in your favor at the moment is, at least you have standards even though you are 23, have never had a girlfriend in your life, and wish to have one. But you should not ridicule those who do not meet your standards, simply because they had the nerve to approach you.

it is different bc she cant obtain one desire while i can;t obtain both of mine. I would like a relationship and sex. My point is that m calling her ugly is a rude and efed up thing to say, but at the end of the day I dont feel bad about it bc she will get hers eventually. BTW, you ask is it different? Here;s another perspective: my desires are realistic(a cute girl who loves me)..she wants everything lol. Her wishes are a little Cinderella story imo.

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Agreed. Even I the few times im contacted by someone im not attracted to I dont leave it to "she was ugly as sin and creepy" while ignoring them. Ill reply to them, in a way that shows im not interested but im also not undermining them.

I can merely hope that OP doesnt get mad when girls react the same way to messages from him but thats extremely unlikely.


Thats the main problem with online dating, it gives you a much wider pool of people but most of them feel entitled to "get" a partner with certain characteristics and they ignore those that dont fit them while complaining about being ignored. This makes the pool of people much smaller and gets rid of the main appeal of online dating(the heavy amount of people that are in a similar situation and you could meet even if it was just as a learning experience(lets face it, some of us havent been in dates in a long period and could use some of the latter ones))