Attracted to Black Women...

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It's great that you like black women, just remember not to let that cross into black fetishism and objectification of black people. It dehumanises them as much as you think they should be flattered by your attraction/obsession with/to them. Definitely avoid discussing what you have with any black people or any black girl in particular you like and get talking to.

I quite like black women too btw

What kind of a racist statement is that?

People are people. Just because a person's skin is one colour or another doesn't mean their personality falls into a certain category.

OP, did you have a question you meant to ask? i am not sure why this thread exists.

I used to be attracted to people who were a different race than me. Im white.


But of course preferences can change over time. u kno.


I don't think black girls are my type anyways.

TS, I've seen multiple topics were you adress your love for black women.
My mother is an afro-Caribiana and my father is a central European. I find these topics so weird. They creep me out.
It's really like you have a fetish for black woman. There is another guy here in the forum that also has a love for exclusively black women.
You really have to ask yourself: what is it I like about black women? Why only black women? Am I making unjustified generalizations about them?

I dated a mixed white/black girl in college very briefly. She was stunningly beautiful. Her hair was large and poofy, but to the touch it was as soft as a kitten's belly. She was a beautiful pianist. But, she was also a really sweet and genuine person. Of course, finding her attractive was essential, but her personality was the reason I dated her in the first place. I'm sure that Richard Loving felt the same way about Mildred.

What I'm saying is- if you're attracted to freckled blondes then go after freckled blondes until you find one who's personality you love. If you're attracted to black women, the process shouldn't be any different.

OP, let me do this the easy way for you:

You're never allowed to like a specific subset of women, ever, otherwise women will get very pissed off, as evidenced by this thread. Unless you love a woman 100% for her personality only, you're a horrible person that objectifies women. Also, don't refer to them as females as that'll also twist their panties into a knot that would make any boyscout or sailor green with envy.

Just roll with it, mate.

^^^ Bullseye. (And that's hard to do with a tommygun!)

^ Nice avatar, good sir.

^^ Hehe same avatars you must have played Fall Out 3 hehe. Ok back on topic OP I was wondering if you would consider looking beyond the womans ethnicity as an individual and not categorize like as a group? Doing so wont go well, with not only Black women but most women in general.

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You guys really need to not idolize any skin colour, I think you should love people for their hearts and not their colour. What you are lacking is cultural confidence by generalizing that all black women are a certain way, people are individuals, accept it and move on.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TL6uVLfKRoo[/youtube]
An interesting video and very interesting what the woman says at 3:00 when the women claim they have very high standards of what they seek in a man.

I like Russian women and Eastern European women, does that mean I restrict myself to those races and idolize women from Eastern Europe? Of course not, I just like some things about them but it doesn't mean I'm prejudice or that I generalize against other races in favour of one.

What's wrong, exactly, with having a preference for one kind of skin color? It's not like having a favorite skin tone and appreciating a woman for her heart are mutually exclusive, false dichotomy and all that.

I'm pretty sure it work the opposite way too - I've seen guys reaction when it's done to them too. I'm pretty sure if a foreign girl was solely chasing white men and you found it out it was *only* white men (or insert said ethnicity here) and nothing but and you knew it came down to the color of your skin - you would be pretty damn pissed off about it.

There's a difference between having a preference - and refusing to date outside of that preference. The OP in question has made it clear multiple times it is the latter.

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with having preferences but let's face it, unless you're an MTV music star or a famous footballer, being that selective is going to prove difficult when you are on the spectrum and even football players have to pay high class prostitutes for sex.

Secondly, idolizing or generalizing a certain race or group is never a good thing, you risk the chance of being prejudice to other groups and not giving them a fair chance, it's shallow and narrow minded.

How often does it really come down to that? I'm pretty sure I've never met a person in my entire life that only cared about the skin color. There's a difference between requiring a person to be a specific skin color, and not caring about anything else. Once again, this is a major false dichotomy.



I don't see a problem with either one, tbh. If one absolutely MUST have a black person as their mate, it's the prerogative of the person in question and it doesn't make him or her a bad person for it.



You can call it as foolish as you want, but it doesn't make a person bad for it.



I can understand this well enough, but there's nothing shallow or narrow-minded about preferring or requiring a specific race at least from a purely physical standpoint. I don't see it any different from say...requiring that your women have to be active and do cardio. Are you not giving all those slobby women a fair chance?

Ive come across women who are of different ethnicities that only go after white men but at the same time bash on their own ethnic group its rather heartbreaking.