What do I need to do to get a woman interested in me?

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Most women like a man with a good sense of humour who doesn't take himself too seriously. They also love to have a personal interest taken in them but not too much, too fast.

If you come across some women who are only interested in your money and your car and how much you will buy them, then you need to set your standards a bit higher.

I'm obseessed with trains buses and cats, will anyone want me, NO

Thats me

Two words: cat lady.

More potential: cat lady that likes model trains. (I know, not full size trains, but sometimes a compromise goes a long way.)

Make a set of coveralls covered in pockets.
Insert puppies and kittens into the pockets.
Stand back and admire my genius as women flock to you.

In all seriousness, divesting yourself of that which makes you you is not a good idea.
3 key things that I've found that many women find attractive are:
Hygeine (but don't overdo it, a la OCD handscrubbing)
Self-confidence (but not arrogance)
Sense of humor (but not to the point of not taking ANYthing seriously)
These don't work on all women and to expect that to be so is foolish. "Women" are not some generic mass-produced 'thing'. They're people, and they're different from each other, and what works for one may not work for another. Realistically speaking, the only things that "all women" have in common are genitalia and even that's open to debate.

Hi Jonathon

I am an NT adult woman.

All of those things are okay, in my opinion. Secondly, many NTs like them as well. Third - giving up things which make you, you, will only find you someone who is not your soul mate.

Maybe take some classes on how to get past shyness (those are not made for AS but will go to key points in how to talk to women), or things like that, if some are available in your city (check Learning Annex, maybe?). It starts there.

For what it's worth I always loved dinosaurs! (PS I am married and also probably too old for most here anyway!!)

Be yourself.