01 Mar 2013, 10:26 am
aspiesandra27 wrote:
I guess so, Stalk. It's difficult trying to determine why he does these things, it might even be nerves, or just his low functioning...without knowing more details, it's just speculation.
Me, being me, I would just ask him directly why he talks about women's boobs to me, and banging them, if that was persistent behaviour. But I am *very* direct when I don't understand something, so the OP might choose another stance.
Me, being me, I would just ask him directly why he talks about women's boobs to me, and banging them, if that was persistent behaviour. But I am *very* direct when I don't understand something, so the OP might choose another stance.
well if he was doing it with you, I would think that he perhaps thought you were to be trusted and not to get offended by it? It is pretty much normal for youngish guys to talk about this stuff when they are with a group of other guys. I would think the same thing happens behind closed doors when women meet up.
So what I get from this is, that he trusts her that she wouldn't get all offended... she can always make him aware of it and probably feel like she would be training him
01 Mar 2013, 10:50 am
Stalk wrote:
aspiesandra27 wrote:
I guess so, Stalk. It's difficult trying to determine why he does these things, it might even be nerves, or just his low functioning...without knowing more details, it's just speculation.
Me, being me, I would just ask him directly why he talks about women's boobs to me, and banging them, if that was persistent behaviour. But I am *very* direct when I don't understand something, so the OP might choose another stance.
Me, being me, I would just ask him directly why he talks about women's boobs to me, and banging them, if that was persistent behaviour. But I am *very* direct when I don't understand something, so the OP might choose another stance.
well if he was doing it with you, I would think that he perhaps thought you were to be trusted and not to get offended by it? It is pretty much normal for youngish guys to talk about this stuff when they are with a group of other guys. I would think the same thing happens behind closed doors when women meet up.
So what I get from this is, that he trusts her that she wouldn't get all offended... she can always make him aware of it and probably feel like she would be training him
@ training him!
Yes, that's really quite plausible! We can always be ourselves with those we trust, even when it's exhibiting silly/childish behaviour!
Not that I would know anything about that, of course! (whistles and looks the other way).
01 Mar 2013, 7:18 pm
Stalk wrote:
aspiesandra27 wrote:
I guess so, Stalk. It's difficult trying to determine why he does these things, it might even be nerves, or just his low functioning...without knowing more details, it's just speculation.
Me, being me, I would just ask him directly why he talks about women's boobs to me, and banging them, if that was persistent behaviour. But I am *very* direct when I don't understand something, so the OP might choose another stance.
Me, being me, I would just ask him directly why he talks about women's boobs to me, and banging them, if that was persistent behaviour. But I am *very* direct when I don't understand something, so the OP might choose another stance.
well if he was doing it with you, I would think that he perhaps thought you were to be trusted and not to get offended by it? It is pretty much normal for youngish guys to talk about this stuff when they are with a group of other guys. I would think the same thing happens behind closed doors when women meet up.
So what I get from this is, that he trusts her that she wouldn't get all offended... she can always make him aware of it and probably feel like she would be training him
like a doggy on a leash :3
lol yes he knows I like him. I came out and admitted it, and he admits he knows I dont like the stuff I mentioned up above being talked about ALL the time. Hes trying to curb it. (He knows I dont mind it once in a great while lol)
