Does an aspergers have chance of dating normal person?

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05 Mar 2013, 5:00 pm

Yes, a person with Aspergers can easily date a nuerotypical, but it depends because every one's Aspergers is different.

A good amount of Aspies are pretty good socially, but they're just quirky, have nerdy interests and can be a goofball at times.

Some Aspies are a trainwreck socially, deny any role in the way their social life is, isolate themselves in their room and use WP to complain about nuerotypicals being judgmental instead of improving socially.



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05 Mar 2013, 5:28 pm

Depends on what kind of date you're talking about. If a basically platonic date then heck yes. If a sexual relationship, then yes but a little harder. And if you mean a partner you intend to marry, well yes it's possible, but it's the exception rather than the norm at a young age.

As the previous poster said aspies come with different levels of social strengths.



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05 Mar 2013, 10:27 pm

Geekonychus wrote:
Why would anyone want to date a normal person.........Normal people suck.

For the record, normal =/= NT. There are plenty of NT weird girls who are fun and understanding and not at all put off by Aspie traits.


ROTFLMAO... When I first came here looking for info about my Aspie boyfriend and I first read NT..N-E-U-R-O T-Y-P-I-C-A-L! Awww mannnnn... I don't wanna be typical. :( seriously I was so bothered by that.. but I am quirky and odd so I am not NT I am simply "other" lol



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08 Dec 2016, 4:35 pm

My grandpa is mild-moderate Autistic and he had 3 children and two wives.



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19 Dec 2016, 6:26 pm

My girlfriend is an Aspie and she's dating me. And I'm fairly normal, I'd say. I'm a neurotypical. We plan on kids and marriage and all that!



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20 Dec 2016, 12:47 am

The guy I've been kinda dating the last couple months is pretty normal. I say pretty normal because I'm very sure he's NT yet he's not "joe average," since he's a very outgoing performer/entertainer. He's more like.. a super person than a normal person. :P


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