Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

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From my experience, the true nice guy's problem is that he isn't trying to get into a girls panties from the very beginning. If you acually want to get to know a woman and develope a friendship before getting all serious your dead from the beginning, cause everyone knows that once you hit that 'friend' point there is no coming back.

But that doesn't mean we finish last. If you put the finish line in high school or the early 20s then I guess there could be an argument for it. Fortunatly for us nice guys, those are just the beginning of the race. All yong, lonly, nice guys have hope, right now girls are confused and finding out who they are. They are more interested in the "cute" guys with popularity and all the other teenage nonesense. But just give it a few years, women will get tired of being screwed over by the dude in the nice car and will accually want someone with a personality, some morals, and the knowledge of how to listen and accually care about more then the next baceball game or lengeri add.

I find that my biggest problem since I've gotten close to the big three 0 is accually findding a nice woman. Contrary to classic culture, most women are just as sex crazed and self absorbed as the average guy. I mean if I hear one more of my female friends complain that there are no good men when they just broke up with another in a long line of serial relationships that started before the last one ended and was begun with drunken f%$ing before they even knew each others last names.. I mean really, at some point you would think people might stop blaming the men and start examining themselves..

Bottom line is that most women are just the same as most men, if you just want a quick hump and maybe some drama then things are easy, just be confident, go to lots of bars, and try to sleep with everyone. If you want a real relationship with someone you love and trust that loves an trusts you, then your in for a long, hard road that doesn't have any kind of garoteed happy ending. But, if your lucky and you try really hard, there is a slim chance that you might acually find a good woman that will make your life a wonderful thing to live. After all being a real nice guy isn't about getting reward, its about doing whats good because it is what you should do.

Exactly Jeckel, and a guy whoring himself out just to get his unfortunately tends to distance him from actually ever finding that - some of my friends are really struggling with that one.