What do you do with your wedding ring when you get divorced?

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jackie31337...I wish you the best.


He wants to..."figure out who he is and what he wants"...I can't say how many times I've heard that...in my past experience though it usually meant they had found something else they thought they wanted to play with for awhile. The next one who ever says that to me (if there ever IS one)...I'm drawing a roadmap for.... so that he knows how to get exactly where he needs to go. I'm not in any way saying this is the case with your relationship...but just take it slowly and keep your eyes open...we just have a way of not picking up on things... and sometimes they just come back to hit us in the face when we aren't expecting it.

Try NOT to give yourself a guilt trip over this...regardless of the outcome...we are who we are, and that's how it should be. You seem like a very nice person...I'm sorry you're going through this...it gets better...honest.

That's what I'm worried about. I get the feeling that when he feels like something is wrong in his life, he tries to fix it by changing the environment around him. He's had a series of short-lived interests and hobbies, and keeps changing his mind about what he wants to do. I'm worried that if one day he decides it was a mistake, it will be too late to do anything about it, and we will all have had to go through this very difficult process for nothing.