I am starting to doubt that humans are capable of true love

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True love definitely exists

Evidence, please?

The mere fact that a lot of people believe in something does not make that something real.

You know, yesterday I watched an episode of My Little Pony, and one of the characters realized that even if you're unable to give an explanation about something that sounds ridiculous doesn't mean that it's not real or anything. One chooses whether to believe in that something or not. In the case of true love, there are those who believe that there is such a thing as true love without actual evidence or an explanation. Of course, there are also those who don't believe there's such a thing, such as yourself. I believe there is such a thing as true love, but hey, you know what they say: we agree to disagree.

Evidence, please?

The mere fact that a lot of people believe in something does not make that something real.

What is true love?

Evidence, please?

The mere fact that a lot of people believe in something does not make that something real.

I used to be absolutely certain that I would find that girl for me, in the past.... I "knew" it. It was such a liberating feeling, to know that you one day would be able to be happy. Then, one day, I found a girl (or she rather found me) who got completely obsessed with me... she loved me very deeply, and, likewise, I loved her. She had a lot of problems in her life, and I wanted to do everything I could to make her happy.... I even was ready to break the law for her, in a country other than mine, to sort things out and make us be able to finally be together.... my plans didn't go as I had intended, though, and we couldn't meet at that time (later, I thought of this as a very lucky twist of fate). I meant to sort out the situation, but she broke up with me for the second time, instead. A couple months later, she contacted me and wanted me to take her back, which I quickly did. Two weeks later or so, she was unfaithful to me, with some guy, who she lost her virginity to. So I broke up with her, instead. I had really tried to do everything for her, she loved me, and I loved her, but it was irrelevant. This happened, anyway.

Next was a girl who seemed so sweet in every way.... her hobbies were so cute, and we shared interests completely. She was a perfect match to me, and I loved talking with her. I quickly had fallen in love with her. Suddenly, she just disappeared. There was no way for me to get in contact with her, anymore. Initially, I tried to remain positive, but soon, my life turned into a living nightmare and crying myself to sleep turned into me walking around like a zombie, and going to bed as a zombie. My life had been ruined. The girl I loved had just... disappeared. A month and a half later, it turned out she had been taken into a psych ward, and she admitted to me about her rather severe mental problems. I told her I was fine with that, and made it clear that I would be by her side. Unlike last time, though, I wanted to make sure I wouldn't have said that I love her, too early, so even still, I never had told her that I loved her. My thoughts were that if you overuse a word, it loses its meaning. I wouldn't make that mistake, again. Suddenly, one day, completely out of the blue, she wanted me to "prove" that I love her. So, I finally said that I love her, but obviously, it was not the right situation to say that, when she now even demanded proof. I asked her what she wants me to do to make her believe me - did she want to talk on the phone...? No, that was out of the question, apparently (we had never talked on the phone, yet, at that time). I called her anyway, and she just freaked out and seemingly dropped the phone on the floor. A week or so goes without me hearing from her. Suddenly, she SMS'es me with tons of love in the tone of it.... later that day, she asks me if I would still love her, even if she had lied about something. I asked her if she had just lied about her name, which she didn't reply to. It quickly started to seem obvious that she was hiding something very bad.... turned out she, as well, had been unfaithful to me, recently, with her ex-boyfriend, losing her virginity in the process. She also had lied about her name and many other things. I still do not know if anything about her was true. She was extremely creative, so I think she may have just made everything up.... yet I loved her, anyway. I probably just fell for lies, yet I apparently thought she was my dream girl, anyway.

Next, I found a girl who had shared dreams with me - we clearly had had a psychic connection. The first e-mail she wrote me almost made me feel love at first "sight". It's amazing what a connection we had, and I could tell, *this* time, that there was no way she was dishonest. What a wonderful girl she was! Everything about her was perfect, and we were compatible in every sense of the way. But it was not to be. She changed her mind on some priorities in life, and suddenly we no longer were compatible, and it ended. It left me with an absolutely hollow feeling...... if even *this* girl wouldn't be my true love, despite the psychic connection we had had, and the amazing chemistry, then how could anyone...? It made me finally realize that I may have been wrong about true love. While I still believe it exists, I am now deeply questioning its presence among humans. Since I have been born human, I do believe it may even be out of reach for me, as well. You have heard it countless times - "True love *does* exist; me and my girlfriend have been together for almost ten years and we both still love each other as much as when we met." Suddenly, they have a crisis and it ends, and if it doesn't end, the passion is gone. Maybe humans simply lack the intellect of being able to fully understand true love...? And since true love is all I live for...... if humans cannot experience it..... doesn't that mean that I should die...? Because there is no real point to anything else, in life. True love is the single point of it that there is. So if I, as a human, cannot experience it.... doesn't that mean that I shouldn't be human...? That I shouldn't be on this particular planet...?

Thanks for reading. I've wanted to get this out, for a while, now.

she was probably dating somebody during those 8 months with whom she probably lost her virginity many times over, if she hadn't already lost it. I don't think most people get scared and back out of a relationship unless they have a better dating alternative lined up.

As to the first comment, that's not possible under any stretch of the imagination. Even if you choose to consider each orifice to have its own virginity, the maximum number of times is 3,unless it is a really thin penis that fits into nostrils and ear canals, then you could technically consider 5,even though each nostrils opens to the same cavity., but at that point I would question the wisdom of dating such an individual.