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15 Oct 2013, 3:35 am

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she has been under a lot of stress and lots of school,


There's your problem. She's busy and stressed. It's nothing you've done wrong.


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15 Oct 2013, 9:25 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
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she has been under a lot of stress and lots of school,


There's your problem. She's busy and stressed. It's nothing you've done wrong.


Thanks , I needed a slap in the face :D .



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15 Oct 2013, 9:32 am

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I could use a trip to Mexico and its warm weather. I live in Colorado and it's about to get cold again. :?


I agree. Here in Michigan, it is a lot like Colorado, minus some of the more liberal laws :D . I wouldn't mind a medium enviroments like Paraguay, or even Colombia. Still deciding how I want to proceed, but I think some assets in the US, some abroad, a chica from Mexico, my eventualy citizenship in a tax haven (like Paraguay), and maybe live somewhere like Mexico or Paraguay. But first to earn the money to travel to figure this out and to get asseted up :D /



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15 Oct 2013, 11:28 am

Good luck.



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15 Oct 2013, 2:45 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Good luck.


Thanks. :D . Sorry if I seemed like I snapped earlier, but I was sleep deprived, had to get up early for school, and I was thinking on her prior to trying to sleep. I seem to get a little loopy at night as of late.



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15 Oct 2013, 2:55 pm

I'm relieved. Whenever I hear GF, I think of this:

[img][400:384]http://www.ffelement.com/finalfantasy/ff8/gf/ifrit.jpg[/img]

...guess it's just me, eh.

Hope it works out for you.



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16 Oct 2013, 3:22 am

zacb wrote:
Hello,

I have a gf online from Mexico, and I care about her dearly. But as of late, she has been under a lot of stress and lots of school, and thus has not really wanted to talk. I asked her if she was still satisfied with the relationship. I believe she also is bi polar she said. I felt a little scared before i discussed this with her. What do you think?


I think you should not be discussing "your relationship" with her remotely, via text, email, or telephone. It's a "high stakes" discussion, she is under stress unrelated to you, and the sort of conversation you are alluding to adds more. It is so easy to miscommunicate something, and next thing you know, it can spiral downward. This very thing just happened to me, I'm actually making a separate post about it. Long story short, "relationship talk" is not a good thing to get into when far away from each other, through electronic channels. It's a face-to-face sort of thing. That's my lesson learned.