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08 Jun 2014, 12:33 pm

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I've run into a few women who were into that kind of thing, and they were all completely insane.
Maybe my kind of insane although I did date one around my age a few years back she was very very um clingy.


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09 Jun 2014, 5:40 pm

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Otaku (おたく/オタク?) is a Japanese term for people with obsessive interests, commonly the anime and manga fandom. In modern Japanese slang, the term otaku is mostly equivalent to "geek" or "nerd". However, it can relate to any fan of any particular theme, topic, hobby or form of entertainment.[6] "When these people are referred to as otaku, they are judged for their behaviors - and people suddenly see an ?otaku? as a person unable to relate to reality". Here in the west it pertains to anime fan or anime geek, in Japan it just means your a geek or nerd.


Thanks for the definition. You learn something new everyday. :)

For me, I'd say maybe. I think it just depends upon the degree it shapes someone's life. If they, say, really enjoy a certain hobby and prefer to spend quiet evenings at home doing that, instead of going out and sitting in a bar all the time, I would be cool with that. But, if it is to the point they have trouble functioning in the world outside their home, spending enough time together to maintain a healthy relationship, etc., then that would be problematic, of course.

Having some degree of balance can be helpful, too. If somebody is really, really into something, but they are also curious enough about the world around them not to mind occasionally learning or trying new things and can hold up conversations about topics outside their primary interests, then it would be much less of an issue, if it's even an issue at all.



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10 Jun 2014, 12:29 am

blueroses wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
Otaku (おたく/オタク?) is a Japanese term for people with obsessive interests, commonly the anime and manga fandom. In modern Japanese slang, the term otaku is mostly equivalent to "geek" or "nerd". However, it can relate to any fan of any particular theme, topic, hobby or form of entertainment.[6] "When these people are referred to as otaku, they are judged for their behaviors - and people suddenly see an ?otaku? as a person unable to relate to reality". Here in the west it pertains to anime fan or anime geek, in Japan it just means your a geek or nerd.


Thanks for the definition. You learn something new everyday. :)

For me, I'd say maybe. I think it just depends upon the degree it shapes someone's life. If they, say, really enjoy a certain hobby and prefer to spend quiet evenings at home doing that, instead of going out and sitting in a bar all the time, I would be cool with that. But, if it is to the point they have trouble functioning in the world outside their home, spending enough time together to maintain a healthy relationship, etc., then that would be problematic, of course.

Having some degree of balance can be helpful, too. If somebody is really, really into something, but they are also curious enough about the world around them not to mind occasionally learning or trying new things and can hold up conversations about topics outside their primary interests, then it would be much less of an issue, if it's even an issue at all.
Well I do have other obsessions indeed Anime is mainly my geekish obsession but I do like other stuff like Star Wars Marvel Comics etc. Outside my geekyness I do like cars both Domestic and Import I like watching them race as well! I also love going to the Ocean a lot!


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10 Jun 2014, 5:52 pm

Anime's a very popular interest. It shouldn't be that hard to find girls who're into it, and they aren't necessarily geeks.
It's not always obsessive, it's just a thing they watch & like sometimes. It's not like D&D where you have to totally get into it.

If you've been to cons, it's not just a bunch of guys walking around.
And you've heard of fanfiction, girls love that stuff, it's mostly them who write it & read it. They love to ship anime characters.

But I guess you meant; Girls who don't like anime at all.

That's the same as for example, a girl finding out you're obsessively into Death Metal while they dislike it.

It can be too much of a turn-off for them if your lifestyles are too different, unless you do get along in some other ways.

Altogether, people are savvier than they used to. Relatively young people should be familiar with anime and the fact it's got many people devoted to it.
You're not as much of an outcast as you think when you're an "Otaku". It's a growing obsession among countless people.
But you don't meet them often, because they're a bit reclusive.

I'd love to meet more people who're into anime, both in real life and on the internet. I tend to hide this hobby, I'm reluctant to talk about anime.
I'm not the only one who thinks that way. Imagine how many people you see daily who might love it, but since it's not something you write on your T-shirt, you don't know that about other people.

In short, there are many girls who love anime these days, whether they're open about it, or not.


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12 Jun 2014, 1:56 pm

Simsam114 wrote:
Anime's a very popular interest. It shouldn't be that hard to find girls who're into it, and they aren't necessarily geeks.
It's not always obsessive, it's just a thing they watch & like sometimes. It's not like D&D where you have to totally get into it.

If you've been to cons, it's not just a bunch of guys walking around.
And you've heard of fanfiction, girls love that stuff, it's mostly them who write it & read it. They love to ship anime characters.

But I guess you meant; Girls who don't like anime at all.

That's the same as for example, a girl finding out you're obsessively into Death Metal while they dislike it.

It can be too much of a turn-off for them if your lifestyles are too different, unless you do get along in some other ways.

Altogether, people are savvier than they used to. Relatively young people should be familiar with anime and the fact it's got many people devoted to it.
You're not as much of an outcast as you think when you're an "Otaku". It's a growing obsession among countless people.
But you don't meet them often, because they're a bit reclusive.

I'd love to meet more people who're into anime, both in real life and on the internet. I tend to hide this hobby, I'm reluctant to talk about anime.
I'm not the only one who thinks that way. Imagine how many people you see daily who might love it, but since it's not something you write on your T-shirt, you don't know that about other people.

In short, there are many girls who love anime these days, whether they're open about it, or not.
Ill have to find me one who has the same interests as mine. Ill probaby find a geek dating site I suppose...


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