I think my boyfriend has Aspergers and I need help!

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Actually, gray/white hair on a woman could be attractive. I, myself, am hoping to eventually get white hair.

mfs- we met on tinder actually. After meeting him, I was surprised that he had the courage/nerve to ask me out for online dating. I found myself initiating the conversation, but he seemed interested. for the first few months, it was very hard. we were moving at a very slow pace, often times, i didn't know the next time we would see e/o. . it was funny, he asked me to fly a few states away to meet his family, but still didnt want to take the step of "boyfriend/girlfriend" which seemed odd to me. I told him I loved him first, and weeks later, he told me, but I questioned it for awhile.. I fell for him b/c we have so much fun together. He is kind, has an extremely dry sense of humor, which I liked at the beginning, but now it seems as if nothing is serious. he used to initiate intimacy, but now does not really. Its almost as if he has pulled back on that, but made leaps and bounds of being involved in my life, hangs with my friends, and is getting more consistent about time spent together. I do often wonder if he thinks I am attractive. I am not overly confident, but get hit on pretty often and am considered by most men to be pretty attractive. I don't think that most women would necessarily find him attractive, but he never really calls me pretty or compliments me.

I don't think that most women would necessarily find him attractive, but he never really calls me pretty or compliments me.