Do men only care about "bimbos"?

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Men are sexually attracted to the model/bimbo look types, but are emotionally attracted to nice, kindly, intelligent and geeky types.
A lucky man who can find both in the same package.
If I had to marry one, I would chose the type I am emotionally attracted too rather than something that looks nice on the outside but causes you a miserable life.

I look like a doll but am I sweet geek on the inside. I have no luck with men. They must notice there is something wrong with me. I am doing something wrong.

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Bimbos get a lot of views on youtube.

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There is nothing "wrong" with you.
But you are one of the rare special people.
The trouble with people is that they have an extraordinary narrow range of acceptance, if anybody speaks, acts or thinks even the slightest deviation from the current norm, they stand out and are seen as different.

Now I don't believe in evolution and think this is one of the reasons why, but just say you had "evolved" into a slightly more advanced Human Being, maybe due to a mutation, it would be rather difficult to pass the mutation on into the gene pool as the un-evolved would reject you.

I think I have your problem to a certain extent as well, I was rather good looking when younger, attractive women would make advances but because I couldn't then behave in the way of the cultural norm, they would very soon halt their advances.

More to the point however, my and probably your good looks, make any more suitable candidate for our affection feel out of their league, that our looks must make us like the unobtainable bimbos that we are certainly not.

There are others like us out there, you wouldn't be happy with one of "them", at least I found I could never be happy with one of "them".
As a girl though, if you meet one of your kind, you must be prepared to let him know you are interested otherwise he will assume you are out of his league based on your looks alone and so be afraid to get to know the unique and special person you really are.

Bad Girls? (a.k.a., "Bimbos", "Tramps", et al.) are simply more interesting than Nice Girls? (who may seem like Good Girls?, but aren't). They're more daring, more outgoing, and more likely to enjoy many of the same things that Bad Boys? enjoy, including sex.

Most men clearly prefer kind and intelligent women in my experience, unless they are very shallow and/or abusive personalities.

There's also a massive difference with a very scandily clad pretty woman who gets glares from men and appears in their fantasies and a woman who men actually want to spend more time with.

Hmmm... Even though i appearantly look like a cross between jessica alba and christina milian I don't think I am THAT stunning. I don't think I intimidate people.
And you are probably right about the showing interest part.

I look k*e a cross breed between Johnny depp and Scooby doo.

Wow wrongplanet is dead today and yesterday. Like everyone went on a holiday.

I think women are harder on themselves then men. With all the advertising using digitally enhanced women, we get the feeling that we are supposed to emulate this. (Which is actually impossible - even they don't look as good as they do irl.) 'Course the same is true of male models and I imagine men feel awkward looking at them.

But a lot of my female acquaintances fuss about their weight and shape - like they think they should still look like young girls.

I read recently that they've come out with a "normal" Barbie:

She has curves and stretch marks. Meet ‘normal Barbie.' Washington Post link



This is great. I remember having a Barbie when I was a kid and trying to shape myself like her - needless to say I didn't pull it off.

Model type women are splashed all over the media. Little boys and girls are exposed to those images at a very young age. The guy always gets the girl in action movies and the female character is one of those model types, 95% of the time. I find it quite sickening.

A lot of guys like "cute and quirky" girls. Men like women with high estrogen and high progestrone levels; these are the most fertile and most genetically gifted women, and thus, the most attractive. Bimbos tend to be more active and make the first move, instead of doing absolutely nothing and waiting for prince charming to pick them up on his white horse.

I'm not sure where to start, you've crammed a lot of nonsense into one post.

Your generalizations are foolish, both regarding men and their dating preferences as well as the underlying assumption that attractive women with large busts can't be "well-behaved girls with a quirky/nerdy side or personality".

You're forgiven for being wrong, but only after a proper penance. Maybe spending a day as a woman with big tits getting objectified, treated as less intelligent and otherwise judged on the basis of your body would give you a bit of insight.

Additionally, models tend to be too skinny to be all that busty. Stores like Victoria's Secret don't even carry bras that fit women who are especially busty.

You're right about this part & it will never change.

What you're not seeing is that it's not ONLY bimbos that EVERY guy cares about. Guys may be outwardly attracted to "hot" girls and so you'll notice their reactions to seeing one, but guys aren't ONLY seeking to have relationships or sex with "bimbos." If that were true no girl that didn't fit that profile would ever be in a relationship with a guy ever - and that simply isn't true. There are plenty of smart good looking (and even dumb ugly) girls in relationships.

I'm gay, and while I'm attracted to the physical types I'm attracted to, I couldn't possibly see myself dating a guy that just looked good and had nothing between his ears. I bet that's the same for MANY guys. It's about intellectual and personality attraction, too, not just looks. Good looks don't hurt any, though!

I don't think any nice intelligent guys who want a real relationship and not just a one time hookup are interested in "bimbos".

And another thing is that you can't always associate beautiful girls with being "bimbo" or unintelligent. I'm sure there are plenty of attractive, intelligent girls with a good personality.

This.

I am pretty and quirky. I just want someone who loves me and appreciates my weirdness.