ForeignObject
Sea Gull
Joined: 15 Nov 2014
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 208
Location: Underneath the ring.
28 Nov 2014, 7:26 pm
ForeignObject
Sea Gull
Joined: 15 Nov 2014
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 208
Location: Underneath the ring.
28 Nov 2014, 7:29 pm
ForeignObject
Sea Gull
Joined: 15 Nov 2014
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 208
Location: Underneath the ring.
28 Nov 2014, 7:41 pm
You're right.
Someone once told me that you will find love where you least expect it, but I just got tired of waiting. I saw the post about the married couple on here and thought I might give that a try. I figured posting this on here would be a better option than going on a dating site because the people on here would at least know about our condition.
I kind of feel embarrassed about this now. Oh well, it was worth a shot. If I knew how to edit or delete this post, I would.
Thanks for all that replied or gave their opinion. I don't know if it means anything to any of you, but this is the first message board that I posted on that didn't call me a derogatory name when I told them that I am a transsexual. You don't know how good that makes me feel. Thank You!
goldfish21
Veteran
Joined: 17 Feb 2013
Age: 43
Gender: Male
Posts: 22,612
Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada
29 Nov 2014, 3:30 am
Nah, don't delete this thread. People are replying and giving genuine dating/relationship advice and you're learning. There's value in that even if this thread doesn't result in any messages/dates etc.
As for posting this thread vs. joining another dating site.. nothing wrong with it, IMO, especially given the fact that you're trans. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'd think that the more places you put yourself out there the better your chances of finding a possible partner are. So, use this site, use dating sites, use classified ads, use hookup sites (there are real people on them, too, not just one night stand types) & be open to meeting someone wherever you happen to be in real life - at the grocery store, wherever, as you never know where or when you might meet someone you're compatible with.
For all our flaws, us Aspies tend to be quite the accepting non-judgemental crowd in general. We'd be some pretty big hypocrites if we called some other minority group derogatory names when we're often the ones marginalized by society for being different ourselves, wouldn't we?
Even if you don't find love among this group, you'll probably find some of the best feedback you can learn from that you'll come across anywhere on the internet.
_________________
No
for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.
29 Nov 2014, 4:43 am
29 Nov 2014, 4:54 am
Be mine, and I'll give you a never ending supply of both
goldfish21
Veteran
Joined: 17 Feb 2013
Age: 43
Gender: Male
Posts: 22,612
Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada
29 Nov 2014, 7:02 am
Oh, and you might want make a thread in the LGBT forum. Even though it's not nearly as busy of a forum as Love & Dating is, you might find someone browsing there who's interested in you.
_________________
No
for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.ForeignObject
Sea Gull
Joined: 15 Nov 2014
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 208
Location: Underneath the ring.
29 Nov 2014, 7:52 am
As for posting this thread vs. joining another dating site.. nothing wrong with it, IMO, especially given the fact that you're trans. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'd think that the more places you put yourself out there the better your chances of finding a possible partner are. So, use this site, use dating sites, use classified ads, use hookup sites (there are real people on them, too, not just one night stand types) & be open to meeting someone wherever you happen to be in real life - at the grocery store, wherever, as you never know where or when you might meet someone you're compatible with.
For all our flaws, us Aspies tend to be quite the accepting non-judgemental crowd in general. We'd be some pretty big hypocrites if we called some other minority group derogatory names when we're often the ones marginalized by society for being different ourselves, wouldn't we?
Even if you don't find love among this group, you'll probably find some of the best feedback you can learn from that you'll come across anywhere on the internet.
Kisses and
's for you all around. Thank You!
ForeignObject
Sea Gull
Joined: 15 Nov 2014
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 208
Location: Underneath the ring.
29 Nov 2014, 7:55 am
