I have been approached by more gay men than women ( but thats because it's the 'mans job'.)
Also i suspect a more direct approach would be more successful than with women.
So if i was gay, then i would definately get more.
Would i want to take a gay pill?
No way.
I doubt very much that people actually choose to be gay. I would guess that it is a genetic predisposition; of course there could be cases where the person is 'spoilt' by bad experiences with the opposite sex. But in general i suspect it is not a question of choice, although i have no research.
(Writing it in underlined big bold letters will not make it so either way.)
Yeah, I've been hit on by gay guys a lot, but lesbians stay away from me (mostly but not always). I think that it may have something to do with my gender.
Joined: 7 Mar 2005 Gender: Male Posts: 6,749 Location: United States
19 Mar 2007, 12:25 pm
I would NOT take that pill. I thing men and cool to hang out with, but not get physical with (a handshake is as far as I go). But how do I cope with being rejected by women? I see escorts. Given the cost of medicine in the US, it's probably cheaper to hire an escort that to buy that pill.
Joined: 28 Sep 2006 Gender: Male Posts: 200 Location: haarlem, nederland
19 Mar 2007, 10:55 pm
ahayes wrote:
I don't think a pill would be required. If I wanted to be gay, I could be. But I'm never going to make that CHOICE.
being gay is not a choice. it is farthest from a choice. you either are or your not. you can repress it, you can not know it, you can remain blind to it, you can doubt about it, but you are gay if you are, wether you accept it or not
Joined: 14 Jan 2007 Age: 39 Gender: Female Posts: 541 Location: New Zealand
19 Mar 2007, 11:06 pm
Sexual orientation is not a choice, it's a realisation. You're born as you are.
I always thought I was straight until I hit t3h intarwebz...discovered I was actually bi I decided...face it, girls are hot too. I'd so touch those boobies.
Most guys are obstinately 'straight' because that's what society tells them to be...until they really explore things, and come to the realisation that maybe there's more out there than just boobies. Give it a try dude...don't just throw yourself into it, just gently explore the possibilities (probably online first, lol) before you go hard irl.
If anything, it may just open up more doors for you in the future.
I don't think a pill would be required. If I wanted to be gay, I could be. But I'm never going to make that CHOICE.
being gay is not a choice. it is farthest from a choice. you either are or your not. you can repress it, you can not know it, you can remain blind to it, you can doubt about it, but you are gay if you are, wether you accept it or not
If it is not a choice it is a mental illness, for homosexuality most definitely IS PERVERSION since there is no biological benifit to reproduction by engaging in homosexual activity. Take your pick, does one choose to be that way or are they mentally ill?
Joined: 14 Jan 2007 Age: 39 Gender: Female Posts: 541 Location: New Zealand
20 Mar 2007, 4:10 pm
Bible-belt is the polite way of saying...well, hillbilly. Sound like the kind to condemn gay sex but date your sister. I know you're not, so stop trying to sound like you are.
And nice point above...you're an Aspie, yet you readily throw out condemnation of mental illness to those not like you. How intolerant Really you should forfeit the fight and accept that AS is a mental illness too, if you want to go down that path.
Fact is everyone's wired differently and you of all people should know that. It doesn't make you ill, it just makes you different. Unique. Individual. You add a different perspective to human-kind that adds to the fullness of our flavour as a human race. Don't condemn other flavours unless they're damaging you in some way. In this case they're just slightly offending you by merely existing. Again, you should know how this feels and realise what it's like to be beaten down for simply existing!