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22 Aug 2015, 8:39 am

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Do any girl here use instances where they have been chatted up, to then retell to their boyfriends (or girlfriends) in order to paint themselves in a desirable light, or to make him jealous. Or do any girls do this, without realising they are doing it.
This question comes from a conversation i recently had with a boyfriend of someone i work with who i think was quite upset by it.

Those girls are called manipulative parasites.


So the girls are trying to make boys jealous manipulatively?

I've met a lot of girls where that is the case. Keep in mind, I do live in Baltimore where the quality of people is pretty low.


What do mean "quality of people"? Do you mean their personality?

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22 Aug 2015, 9:13 am

If I had a girlfriend and she did that to me to make me jealous, I would just dump her and be done with it. Don't want to have to put up with any crap. Instead I'll go and enjoy some animated GIFs.

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22 Aug 2015, 9:30 am

CommanderKeen wrote:
Aspie202 wrote:
CommanderKeen wrote:
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CommanderKeen wrote:
InsomniaGrl wrote:
Do any girl here use instances where they have been chatted up, to then retell to their boyfriends (or girlfriends) in order to paint themselves in a desirable light, or to make him jealous. Or do any girls do this, without realising they are doing it.
This question comes from a conversation i recently had with a boyfriend of someone i work with who i think was quite upset by it.

Those girls are called manipulative parasites.


So the girls are trying to make boys jealous manipulatively?

I've met a lot of girls where that is the case. Keep in mind, I do live in Baltimore where the quality of people is pretty low.


What do mean "quality of people"? Do you mean their personality?

Yes.


I see.


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22 Aug 2015, 10:13 am

My ex didn't like it when I would chat to guys online but I think he was a over jealous controlling guy who was insecure. Was he afraid he would lose me? Well maybe if he took a look in the mirror, then he wouldn't feel that way. (He was an a**hole I am saying and if he would quit being one, problem solved. He wouldn't have to worry then but because he was a narcissist, it was his way or the highway) But luckily he had no issues of me posting on forums thank goodness.

I don't like to be limited and I refuse to not talk to anyone just because they have a penis and what if I was bisexual? Then would he have cut off all my online contact and not talk to anyone online.

I am sure there are girls who can talk to guys to make their partner jealous and I am sure a man can just get jealous when a girl talks to a random guy but she isn't doing it to make him jealous. I know my husband does but he doesn't get all controlling about it and all upset and I can't tell I am being hit on so that is a bonus for him.


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22 Aug 2015, 10:46 am

A little harmless 'torture' can be arousing.

Tickle me girls..tickle me.







Wait no... I was kidding... STOP STOP!!



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22 Aug 2015, 10:59 am

Catlover5 wrote:
If I had a girlfriend and she did that to me to make me jealous, I would just dump her and be done with it. Don't want to have to put up with any crap. Instead I'll go and enjoy some animated GIFs.

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That's a fancy pants idea :)


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22 Aug 2015, 12:31 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
A little harmless 'torture' can be arousing.

Tickle me girls..tickle me.







Wait no... I was kidding... STOP STOP!!



You, are a very naughty boy ;)


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22 Aug 2015, 12:34 pm

InsomniaGrl wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
A little harmless 'torture' can be arousing.

Tickle me girls..tickle me.






Wait no... I was kidding... STOP STOP!!



You, are a very naughty boy ;)



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22 Aug 2015, 1:30 pm

Frankly, even if my entire life were to consist of mind games I'm not sure I'd be bothered; perplexing girls provide puzzles to solve and more often than not, the gray matter to back them up.


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22 Aug 2015, 3:09 pm

InsomniaGrl wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
A little harmless 'torture' can be arousing.

Tickle me girls..tickle me.







Wait no... I was kidding... STOP STOP!!



You, are a very naughty boy ;)


I am hearing this a lot lately - Naughty is becoming my second name.



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22 Aug 2015, 8:41 pm

My aspie ex gf did this a few times. The first time she was telling me about an exchange she had on facebook with a friend of a friend. The guy hit on her hard and opened up a bit with his feelings. She said she just wanted to be friends and he said he wasn't trying for anything more than that, but he never messaged her again. I think she was just venting about how guys will do that. She was surprised when I didn't find it funny and told her it made me a little uncomfortable that guys would just message her like that. Of course, she wouldn't fill out her relationship status because she didn't want her ex to know she got in a relationship right after dumping him. So maybe she wouldn't of had those problems if she changed it.

The other time was in a game we played together. A guy started messaging her and he had no subtlety at all. I actually found that amusing.

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There may be some nice girls who have no idea how to torture guys, for example, like ME. :D


Do you mind if I ask where your avatar is from? I actually used it for my kik profile pic for a while but lost the image when I changed it.



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23 Aug 2015, 8:41 pm

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Do you mind if I ask where your avatar is from? I actually used it for my kik profile pic for a while but lost the image when I changed it.

I googled for it, but I don't remember what specific words I typed to get my avatar. I'm even not sure if my avatar has any name or not. Sorry for not being of any help.


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