15 Sep 2015, 9:12 am
Gwenwyn wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
Just beware of the friend zone. The friend zone is basically where she only sees you as a friend nothing else. Being in the friend zone basically means it's nearly impossible to get out.
Now listen if you like a girl, you have to ask yourself, do I want to be in a relationship with her, just be friends, or simply hookup?
You can avoid the friend zone by by flirting with her and letting her know your interested but like I said, you're just a freshman and that's a crappy year for most boys especially aspie boys. Dating will be hard, it's best you wait a year or two for better results
Now listen if you like a girl, you have to ask yourself, do I want to be in a relationship with her, just be friends, or simply hookup?
You can avoid the friend zone by by flirting with her and letting her know your interested but like I said, you're just a freshman and that's a crappy year for most boys especially aspie boys. Dating will be hard, it's best you wait a year or two for better results
Not necessarily. Many successful relationships start out as friendships, and many relationships can turn into solid friendships. It really depends on the maturity of the person you are interested in.
Friend Zone doesn't actually exist -- most of boyfriends were guys I was friendly with (not necessarily close friends, more like guys who ran in similar social circles and occasionally turned up at the same parties) and one day BAM something clicked & we were off to the races.
In my experience, the guys who complain about the Friend Zone are so-called "nice guys" who for whatever reason elect to let a clearly not interested girl (read: has told him she sees him as a friend only, yet dude refuses to accept that) demand tons of favors (rides, repairs, whatnot), do said favors and then b***h she's not interested (but not stop w/favors).
18 Sep 2015, 3:35 am
You're in the 9th grade, you don't need a girl friend. Kids these days. Anyway, you should try to get to know some girls a little bit first from some mutual place, approach them and just ask questions to try to further get to know them better, and if you think they are worth the trouble by then finally ask them out to something. You don't have to call it a date.
Oh, I don't approach girls at the lunch table, I get to approach me. 
I'm not sure if that means I'm hot or I'm just really pathetic.
18 Sep 2015, 4:03 am
