Am I wasting my time with this aspie?

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HM
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16 Aug 2016, 8:33 pm

I agree - an opportunity to talk to him in person is required. That is what Sunday night was mean't to be however he cancelled. There's nothing else I can do untill he is ready to meet me in person. I'm at the point now where this yo-yoing is causing me to become depressed. When (and if) he does contact me again, I'll be very direct with what I want so that I can move on either way.



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16 Aug 2016, 8:40 pm

Thanks for your input UnturnedStone. You are quite accurate with your insights. I need to find out what he wants.



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16 Aug 2016, 9:13 pm

And I just want to say on an emotional level... I have always been sensitive to his emotional/anxiety/depression issues (and communicated compassion towards him) but I can't help him if he doesn't open up.



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17 Aug 2016, 3:18 am

Just a quick update to say thanks for everyone's input on this post.
I sent a text this arvo and he hasn't replied so that's it, I'm done.



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17 Aug 2016, 7:41 am

HM wrote:
Just a quick update to say thanks for everyone's input on this post.
I sent a text this arvo and he hasn't replied so that's it, I'm done.


When did you send it, this morning? Just wait a day or so for him to reply.