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Hurtloam and Anagram....sitting in a tree!

LOL with them both liking the outdoors so much, this makes it even more of an irony! Quite interesting!

i'm no environmentalist though

I bet they'd make a great couple!

I bet they would too.

Yeah well we live on different sides of the planet.... So pointless conversation really.

aww, Kraftiekortie, so much for our match making skills... Give me time to think on this, Hurtloam. My brain is too scattered right now. Love is never out of the question for anyone though. It's just a matter of finding you the right setting to get into where you can find it.

I am on the spectrum, as well, yet, I did not have the awareness of certain, common traits, because, I don't possess those particular traits. In fact, I am fairly opposite in some ways, however, not neurotypical, either, by any stretch. It's a bit daunting to explain at the moment, so I'll leave it at that. Indeed, I too, can see you and anagram to be a good match for various reasons (from what I gather, from both of your posts). I think he's mentioned within a few of his posts, that he likes to travel, so...

There are plenty of people who believe in certain religion but yet are not practicing and living totally secular - their lifestyles aren't any different from atheists/agnostics at all, those don't differ from atheists in anything except in certain perspectives on origin of life...etc.

But there are religious persons who follow a certain code in the way of living....that's something else.

Nope, I don't think Brits and Italians get along well relationship wise, they have entirely different values, and are opposites in many things.

It would be a disastrous pizza mess.

But yeah, pointless conversation.

Many "normal" people have trouble dealing with the intensity in which Aspies approach special interests--you may need to talk about your special interests in a manner similar to how people decide to celebrate different religions.

Ah, Britte now I understand you wrote what you did from an aspie point of view I feel like I can respond.

Yes, I don't know how aspies respond to relationships. Funnily enough we don't talk about that much on here, so I'm not really learning from anyone.

I feel like I did as a child when I first started school and I wasn't coping.

I think that I can't deal with new social situations. When I'm used to people I can cope. When I'm in a routine I can cope.

However, I don't know what I'm meant to do when I like a new man, I don't know how to interperate what he does (this one is very atypical too, which I love, but to a certain extent makes me even more confused) so I feel like I'm short circuiting.

Normally I end up pushing the person away because of the wall I make unintentionally

You like the outdoors.

If the guy likes the outdoors, too, then you can get along.

You can glory in Nature without having to play all those social games.

You already have a commonality.

Do you also like gardening? If the guy likes gardening, you can garden together. You have a reason to be with each other; you are helping each other out. It's not forced.

You can also poke a bee hive together for extra fun.

And to connect better with nature.