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^ I think that melancholy attitude will drive girls away from you far more than being poor and ugly would.

I you don't believe me look at this guy. He's very poor a very ugly yet he's married with kids.

This is wrong type of thinking.

Guys that are very ugly like me that gets into relationship is like 1 in 100 000. As big chance as winning millions on the lottery. Its not even worth trying. The only thing i will get is more bad self-esteem and depression after getting rejected by thousands of females.

But i will never be that 1, i am not just very ugly but also very dumb. That remix is making my chances 0 %.

I thought that too and now I'm married.

Yes. Yes it is.

Thanks Retrogamer.

There needs to be an annotation:
If you think relationships will bring you instant ultimate happiness. Think again.

It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. Is true.
Relationships can be great for a few months or even years.
But, you often see these from the outside, you do not see couples unhappy or fighting. Many people want to pretend that everything is okay, for various reasons
Relationships can be difficult to establish, he/she may decide you're not what he/she wants, then how do you feel? Probably a little down, perhaps even worse (if you were unhappy before).
Then there are deceptive people that cheat or use you (for sex, wealth, their own sick sadism).
Also relationships can sometimes be a lot of work or troublesome - which makes you feel aweful.

Just keep in mind that you need to grow your own green grass before you can compare it to your neighbours. That grass may not be as green as you think.