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04 Feb 2018, 4:27 pm

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Being a virgin isn't that bad. Some women don't like it when you have too much experience.

And a lot don’t like it when you have no experience. Probably even the ones you talked about, I’d wager most women want a guy with experience but not a lot. So few sexual partners.

Excellent. You fit in that category so it won't be a problem.

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04 Feb 2018, 7:10 pm

I would be pretty undesirable then.....

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04 Feb 2018, 7:20 pm

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just go to a brothel if it means that much to you

I think they want more than that, and I don't blame them.

If I was that age and I made an effort to talk to women to no avail, I would go definitely go to a prostitute too.

It isn't the same. That's like paying for "friends" - they aren't into you at all, just want your money.

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04 Feb 2018, 8:55 pm

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Who cares?

He does. That's why he's posting it! See how that works?

I care because he cares. If he didn't care, he wouldn't have started this thread.

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04 Feb 2018, 9:00 pm

Maybe talk to women 4 times a month maybe every weekend and see what happens. The more you get out, the better it gets. You might find yourself a very good catch.

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05 Feb 2018, 9:48 am

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just go to a brothel if it means that much to you

One night stands do very little to alleviate loneliness. I remember that from when I was younger and had a couple of them, but no stable, long-term girlfriend. I can't imagine that sleeping with a prostitute will help you unless you're completely clueless about what to do in bed.

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05 Feb 2018, 10:00 am

There's also for the potential for robbery, assault, sexually-transmitted diseases, and worse, if you go to a prostitute.

It's just the same as masturbation, which costs nothing but a tissue or paper towel

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05 Feb 2018, 10:20 am

I lost my Virginity to a prostitute it was an empty unpleasant experience.

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05 Feb 2018, 3:59 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

There's also for the potential for robbery, assault, sexually-transmitted diseases, and worse, if you go to a prostitute.

Go to a prostitute somewhere where it's legal like Nevada and it will be the safest, cleanest sex you've ever had. Legal prostitutes receive regular check-ups. Legal prostitutes also examine their client's equipment before proceeding so you won't get VD from one of her previous johns.

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05 Feb 2018, 4:00 pm

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I lost my Virginity to a prostitute it was an empty unpleasant experience.

I was really thinking of doing the same thing a few years ago. Based on your post I guess it's not worth it. Glad I lost it the regular way.

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05 Feb 2018, 6:20 pm

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RetroGamer87 wrote:

Being a virgin isn't that bad. Some women don't like it when you have too much experience.

And a lot don’t like it when you have no experience. Probably even the ones you talked about, I’d wager most women want a guy with experience but not a lot. So few sexual partners.

I think you are right. A little bit to some experience is probably preferred, but no experience is better than lots.

I’d say they’re equally as bad unless your a teen. Past 25 it’s big red flag for guy to have few or no experience.

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05 Feb 2018, 6:21 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:

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RetroGamer87 wrote:

Being a virgin isn't that bad. Some women don't like it when you have too much experience.

And a lot don’t like it when you have no experience. Probably even the ones you talked about, I’d wager most women want a guy with experience but not a lot. So few sexual partners.

Excellent. You fit in that category so it won't be a problem.

I had sex once hardly counts as experience so I basically have non. And I bet women would find how I had sex pathetic and a red flag.

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05 Feb 2018, 6:24 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

Nonitd not sex is way way better then masturbation. The for play and kissing alone is way way better.

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05 Feb 2018, 7:03 pm

You don't play, caress, kiss, cuddle, etc. with a prostitute.

All you do with them is "wham, bam, thank you ma'am."

And that's the way they prefer it.

Masturbation is preferable to GOING WITH A PROSTITUTE, not preferable to sex with your lover.

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05 Feb 2018, 7:30 pm

From the girl perspective, just saying, that if a man was with 7 women that's one thing. Acceptable. But if he says he was only with one woman and it was a prostitute, I would not even speak to him again. That's disgusting. If he was never with anyone, that is more desirable than being with one prostitute.

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05 Feb 2018, 8:31 pm

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Wow, I guess going with prostitute is really bad then. I never considered it because it's illegal where I live, soliciting services of a prostitute can lead to jail time, criminal record which never goes away, etc. Also from the wording it appears to suggest they will evaluate the incident as a sex offense too like as if it were non-consensual.

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How bad/not bad is it to have 0 experience?

Reason for me in part being I was borderline anorexic(I eat lots but metabolism is crazy) like 110lbs 5'11 as a teen/young adult, I've only been healthy weight for a year or two. Now I think it's just nervousness about having 0 experience, like I feel like people probably gonna think I have to be a sociopath or something to be 0 experience at my age(Is it safe to say age/location on here?). Plus I have to learn more about the finer things in social skills and fashion as I'd wear stuff like youth XL till like 20. A lot of my clothing was still from junior high cause they still fit, hated how my body looked so 0 motivation to do anything about it didn't care as long as it covered me up(body dysmorphia). Now I feel a bit better but it took a lot of years largely because my metabolism is just now getting to be what I'd consider normal.

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