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05 Jun 2018, 6:19 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.



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05 Jun 2018, 6:27 pm

Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


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05 Jun 2018, 6:36 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.



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05 Jun 2018, 6:38 pm

Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.


:lol: Now the only people qualified to give you advice have to have lived in the Bible Belt for at least 30 years?

Why do you continue to request advice from this forum, then? :?

Go seek it from your neighbours.


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05 Jun 2018, 6:49 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.


:lol: Now the only people qualified to give you advice have to have lived in the Bible Belt for at least 30 years?

Why do you continue to request advice from this forum, then? :?

Go seek it from your neighbours.


I was referring only to you alone.



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05 Jun 2018, 6:51 pm

Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.


:lol: Now the only people qualified to give you advice have to have lived in the Bible Belt for at least 30 years?

Why do you continue to request advice from this forum, then? :?

Go seek it from your neighbours.


I was referring only to you alone.


Oh? Is it because I'm very honest with you and don't put up with your lies or insults? Is it because I tell you the truth? That you need to take personal responsibility for yourself and work on improving yourself in order to become more attractive to girls?

Or are you just envious that girls are attracted to me & I don't even want their attention? Could be that, too.


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05 Jun 2018, 6:55 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.


:lol: Now the only people qualified to give you advice have to have lived in the Bible Belt for at least 30 years?

Why do you continue to request advice from this forum, then? :?

Go seek it from your neighbours.


I was referring only to you alone.


Oh? Is it because I'm very honest with you and don't put up with your lies or insults? Is it because I tell you the truth? That you need to take personal responsibility for yourself and work on improving yourself in order to become more attractive to girls?

Or are you just envious that girls are attracted to me & I don't even want their attention? Could be that, too.


You cry a river whenever I hit back at you. You obviously aren't putting up with the things I say.



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05 Jun 2018, 7:00 pm

Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.


:lol: Now the only people qualified to give you advice have to have lived in the Bible Belt for at least 30 years?

Why do you continue to request advice from this forum, then? :?

Go seek it from your neighbours.


I was referring only to you alone.


Oh? Is it because I'm very honest with you and don't put up with your lies or insults? Is it because I tell you the truth? That you need to take personal responsibility for yourself and work on improving yourself in order to become more attractive to girls?

Or are you just envious that girls are attracted to me & I don't even want their attention? Could be that, too.


You cry a river whenever I hit back at you. You obviously aren't putting up with the things I say.


Stop lying, Marknis. I'm not crying. I'm laughing at you for how ridiculous you're being - including lying about me laughing at your ridiculousness & saying that I'm crying a river. :lol: At least you're entertaining in your ridiculousness! Thanks for the laugh, Marknis. :)


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05 Jun 2018, 7:05 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.


:lol: Now the only people qualified to give you advice have to have lived in the Bible Belt for at least 30 years?

Why do you continue to request advice from this forum, then? :?

Go seek it from your neighbours.


I was referring only to you alone.


Oh? Is it because I'm very honest with you and don't put up with your lies or insults? Is it because I tell you the truth? That you need to take personal responsibility for yourself and work on improving yourself in order to become more attractive to girls?

Or are you just envious that girls are attracted to me & I don't even want their attention? Could be that, too.


You cry a river whenever I hit back at you. You obviously aren't putting up with the things I say.


Stop lying, Marknis. I'm not crying. I'm laughing at you for how ridiculous you're being - including lying about me laughing at your ridiculousness & saying that I'm crying a river. :lol: At least you're entertaining in your ridiculousness! Thanks for the laugh, Marknis. :)


Thanks for proving me right about you talking down to me. It wasn't going to stay hidden forever.



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05 Jun 2018, 7:20 pm

You know what Mark? No one can help you.

You took my suggestions via PM in response to your complaints that your mother "does not want you to be independent" and turned it in to some sort of shaming attack. My suggestion was to find a roommate, by either finding an ad seeking a roommate or placing one. You completely IGNORED my suggestion to place a roommate ad and responded by complaining about having a hard life, to which I basically said that life was not fair, and some of us have to work more than others.

It's apparent that you have a mental block that no one will ever be able to help you with. I'm sorry your life is hard, but I'm all out of things to say.


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Even if she has a boyfriend, if you become friends with her she might introduce you to some single friends of hers.

Never been my experience



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goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


And yet that’s how most all relationships start, guy thinks girls pretty and wants to date her(ie gf)
It’s not an air of desperation, most men and women will see other wed they find attractive as a potential mate if they’re single. Our species is driven to mate up and reproduce as we aren’t a asexual reproductive species



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05 Jun 2018, 7:35 pm

sly279 wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


And yet that’s how most all relationships start, guy thinks girls pretty and wants to date her(ie gf)
It’s not an air of desperation, most men and women will see other wed they find attractive as a potential mate if they’re single. Our species is driven to mate up and reproduce as we aren’t a asexual reproductive species


And yet this quite obviously has not been working. When something doesn't work it makes literally zero sense to continue to do it.


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05 Jun 2018, 7:47 pm

Marknis wrote:
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Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.


:lol: Now the only people qualified to give you advice have to have lived in the Bible Belt for at least 30 years?

Why do you continue to request advice from this forum, then? :?

Go seek it from your neighbours.


I was referring only to you alone.


Oh? Is it because I'm very honest with you and don't put up with your lies or insults? Is it because I tell you the truth? That you need to take personal responsibility for yourself and work on improving yourself in order to become more attractive to girls?

Or are you just envious that girls are attracted to me & I don't even want their attention? Could be that, too.


You cry a river whenever I hit back at you. You obviously aren't putting up with the things I say.


Stop lying, Marknis. I'm not crying. I'm laughing at you for how ridiculous you're being - including lying about me laughing at your ridiculousness & saying that I'm crying a river. :lol: At least you're entertaining in your ridiculousness! Thanks for the laugh, Marknis. :)


Thanks for proving me right about you talking down to me. It wasn't going to stay hidden forever.


:lol: Thanks for another laugh!

You should change your avatar to this guy: :jester:


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05 Jun 2018, 7:49 pm

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... When something doesn't work it makes literally zero sense to continue to do it.
That reminds me of Albert Einstein's famous line: "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."

Just quoting.


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05 Jun 2018, 8:07 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
TheSpectrum wrote:
goldfish is onto something here.
Already it's established the attraction isn't mutual.
You don't know each other yet and yet you know you both exist.


I wanted to add, it's sort of weird that you've already sort of put her in this position of "potential girlfriend" when you don't know her, haven't talked to her, don't even know her name, know absolutely nothing about her. Dude - she just started yesterday.

Back up and start again. If you're approaching every single woman out there with this air of desperation, I can kind of see why you may be getting weird, scowling looks in return.


Don't f*****g dude me. Why are you even replying to me? You've told me you have nothing more to say to me.

I haven't even approached this person. Also, my older brother and other guys I've known always got girls right off the bat while trying to be friends first never worked for me.


Why are you getting hostile towards people who are giving you very valuable constructive criticism of your thoughts & behaviours?


She's shamed me for my living situation.


No, you're lying again, Marknis. Read her post again. There is NOTHING in it about your living situation. Stop lying. It's VERY evident that you're lying, because the words you just used to describe her post above Do Not Match. You'll make more friends here, and in real life, if you stopped lying about others.


I am talking about her other posts as well as PMs she's sent to me. That's why I mentioned her in the past tense, genius.


You know what one more thing that girls don't like about you is? That you dwell on the past and irrelevant PM conversations in order to discount the value of positive, helpful, advice given to you.

Grow up, Marknis. Once you do that you might just be on the path to being able to get a date or have a girlfriend, but as long as you keep acting like a child you're going to keep being treated like one - and children don't get dates or girlfriends.


There are some girls who like me as a person here, idiot. You don't speak for all the women here.

Get a clue already and f**k off.


You know what else most girls find unattractive? Guys who call people insulting names. Because that, too, is childish. I don't report posts. I'd prefer to use this as what's called "a teachable moment," and have you learn something from it.

Grow up, Marknis.


Most women I see in my daily life don't seem to have a problem with that. I've even seen some call people who they don't like "fa***t". I get confused by all the social interactions I see in my area.
The Bible Belt is a sick place and it's stolen hope from me.

Until you've lived in the Bible Belt for nearly 30 years, I won't take any advice from you.


:lol: Now the only people qualified to give you advice have to have lived in the Bible Belt for at least 30 years?

Why do you continue to request advice from this forum, then? :?

Go seek it from your neighbours.


I was referring only to you alone.


Oh? Is it because I'm very honest with you and don't put up with your lies or insults? Is it because I tell you the truth? That you need to take personal responsibility for yourself and work on improving yourself in order to become more attractive to girls?

Or are you just envious that girls are attracted to me & I don't even want their attention? Could be that, too.


You cry a river whenever I hit back at you. You obviously aren't putting up with the things I say.


Stop lying, Marknis. I'm not crying. I'm laughing at you for how ridiculous you're being - including lying about me laughing at your ridiculousness & saying that I'm crying a river. :lol: At least you're entertaining in your ridiculousness! Thanks for the laugh, Marknis. :)


Thanks for proving me right about you talking down to me. It wasn't going to stay hidden forever.


:lol: Thanks for another laugh!

You should change your avatar to this guy: :jester:


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