Lying to get a girlfriend

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Won't say that. There are some few who deserve worse partners than just such ones and are just bad liars themself.
And the whole political correctness isn't anything else but wanting other people to lie about how they really think and feel. For this I guess you are totally wrong if it comes to feminists, politicians and many minorities. I would say that all people who demand of others to lie also deserve liars in their life.

I saw the word "lie" twice and the word "lying" twice in your post.

Seriously mate??

Time to get a grip and grow the goodness up!

"To thine own self be true"

Whaddya reckon mate?

I feel that if I didn’t have Aspergers I would find it easier to do the social things needed to get another girlfriend.

Before you bash me for breaking up with my ex-girlfriend, I wasn’t attracted to her anymore. I would rather have someone that looks more like me.

Looks ain’t everything.....

"Bad" people and liars don't deserve any partner in the first place.

Well, screw society, politics, social norms, the system and all the other bs .... blablabla. Do whatever makes you happy. Period.
Lying is NOT an excuse for ANYTHING. I'm extremely radical on that one and I won't ever change my mind about this.

btw who is demanding who to lie? Darüber bin ich nicht aufgeklärt, sorry.

Lol



No.

^ No.

Do lie!

And let us know of the results, for science!

I’ll go make the popcorn.

all the responses clear enough of an answer for you yet, OP??

Obvious troll is obvious. Don't feed it.

Once you establish social rules for a guy not calling a negro n*gger then you demand of him to lie instead of simply talking they way he thinks. But even if he starts talking this way he won't think different way. The political correctness demands of people to talk a dishonest and lying way instead oft telling straight and the way they think. Sorry but I prefere people who are straight and honest. A guy who talks straight and the way he thinks is more worth than all the ones together who don't dare but lie instead. Except you are disliking open opinions. If somebody is talking that way then you know the way that he is thinking at least. Do you prefere a society of liars? Sorry but all nazis together are less a real problem today then people who demand others to talk lying way. Political correctness is nothing but just lying for not offending others.

Honesty is always best. I don’t need to say more about it. Lying doesn’t reflect well on your own value.

I think a better issue is to what degree someone actually deserves the truth. If say, you are a virgin and literally NO girl will sleep with you for lack of experience. That’s a Catch-22 and absurd. If no girl ever slept with virgin, the human race would never exist. Never bring it up.

If the problem is you have Asperger’s, simply don’t disclose that. Does having it directly harm or impact the girl? No. Therefore it’s none of her business.

If you have HIV or herpes, that’s gonna be important. There’s no point bringing up other dealbreakers when they are unreasonable or don’t even matter that much. It may become important down the road and you’ll disclose when and IF it does. If there’s no point, don’t bother.

If you think you have to lie about yourself to get certain 'hot' girls you seem really immature. Hopefully in the long run you realize that you can attract the right kind of people just by being the best version of yourself and eventually that tactic brings someone in your life who you care about on a less superficial level.

The more common issue is: that a lot of women would not sleep with a virgin, after a certain age.

So no risk on the human race.

I see both sides of the issue.

1) Honesty is always best.  Lie once, and you'll need to lie more to maintain the belief in the first lie.  Sooner or later, all of those lies will catch up with you.  "Oh, what a tangled web we weave..."

2) Women also practice deception to get boyfriends -- not ALL women, but some.  Most of the deception involves appearances, of course; but I've dated a few women who told me they were divorced when (it turned out) they hadn't even filed the paperwork yet.

What good is honesty in a relationship if only one partner is practicing it?

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