Muse933277 wrote:
When it comes to dating, unless you are exclusively dating someone, it's not wise to only talk and go on dates with one person and put all of your eggs into one basket. If you have options (which it seems like you do), then you should DEFINITELY take advantage of it.
Why? Because the more people you text and go on dates with, the greater the chance that not only will you find someone who's right for you, but if you get rejected or ghosted by one of them, you still have other options to choose from. The biggest mistake you can make is only pursue one person, that's setting yourself up for disaster.
I do agree that you should definitely limit the number of people you text and date though, but initially, you should definitely be texting and going on dates with more than 1 person. I would say the ideal number of people would be 4 or 5 people otherwise it gets exhausting. Gradually, some of these people are going to fall off as the weeks go by, they may not be interested in you, you may not be interested in them etc... But the chances of one of these guys working out is pretty high if you're initially talking and going on dates with at least 4 or 5 guys.
So in a nutshell, don't limit yourself to just one person.
We a talking online, we been talking for 11 days. What if you don’t want to talk to other men.
02 Sep 2021, 4:15 am
