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28 Jul 2007, 5:54 pm

NeantHumain wrote:

jkrane wrote:

Here is what I wrote to this b***h!! !!

I'll call you back in an hour. f***ing BS!! !! !! !! !!

Way to come off as completely psychotic there. Remember women are social beings, and no matter how unfair it may seem to you, they'll do what they do, but there are plenty more women anyway. Just remember that a rant like that will get bad gossip about you spread, and then women will avoid you like the plague.

she has no idea who I am.

and they already do avoid me like the plaugue.

So I tried the angry approach and I felt much better.

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28 Jul 2007, 5:57 pm

Alicorn wrote:

jkrane wrote:

I don't know what to believe anymore. These girls speak in lies. I can't tell the difference between what is truth and what is false.

The fem-matrix has you.

:lol:

Seriously though, a large part of the problem is exactly what I said in my last post: most women don't know what they want.

I agree with you.

If women don't know what they want: WHY POST A PROFILE ON A DATING SITE???! !!
God damn. I'll never understand these human creatures.

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28 Jul 2007, 6:02 pm

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Ironically the people who act like this actually make things worse in the long run for themselves and their children.

Take the 'rule of law' for example. Most people are short-sightedly selfish and if they could get away with some wrong-doing they would. But that kind of behavior subverts the rule of law. Why is this important? That's becuase under the rule of law we give up short-term selfish advantages in exchange for long term stability and prosperity.

The World Bank actually found that countries with the strongest rule of law (that doesn't mean police state) also have the most prosperity.

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In a fascinating interview in Reason magazine, Hamilton explains how "natural capital" (croplands, oil, etc.) and "produced capital" (factories, iPods, roads, etc.) are the smallest slices of the economic pie when measured properly. What Hamilton calls "intangible capital," which includes the rule of law, education and the like, is by far the biggest slice. The planet's "natural capital" accounts for 5 percent of total wealth; produced capital, 18 percent; and intangible capital, 77 percent.

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/opin ... entary-hed

The trouble is that people who are weak like that are great at turning it around, going on the offense, and making people who are making good longterm choices look like weak, prude, and spineless dickriders pretty much - and people buy it, its the basis of our society.

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29 Jul 2007, 2:03 am

I am starting a new dating service for women with Borderline Personality Disorder. It's called "Borderline Babes: We Wanna F@#$ You and F*##$ With Your Head."

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29 Jul 2007, 2:20 am

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I am starting a new dating service for women with Borderline Personality Disorder. It's called "Borderline Babes: We Wanna F@#$ You and F*##$ With Your Head."

You know, that could be the one instance where the numbers would be 10 women to 1 guy on average and that guy would probably be an abusive creep who's looking to take advantage of that easy a target; lack of maturity seems to drive most guys crazy almost if not to the same extent that nerdiness in a guy drives women crazy.

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31 Jul 2007, 4:49 am

Nerdiness in a guy can be endearing but immaturity and selfishness never are. :evil:

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31 Jul 2007, 11:38 am

Crazy_Ben wrote:

I am starting a new dating service for women with Borderline Personality Disorder. It's called "Borderline Babes: We Wanna F@#$ You and F*##$ With Your Head."

wow. there will be 1000000000000000000000000000000000000 women and 50 men on that site.

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31 Jul 2007, 1:12 pm

Pandora wrote:

Nerdiness in a guy can be endearing but immaturity and selfishness never are. :evil:

For some. Some find those traits attractive.
Just as I do in a woman, when properly
expressed.

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01 Aug 2007, 1:54 am

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Um, wow, that's a little unfair though. When I say people are slaves to their genes I mean it. They don't really mean ill, they're just locked in their own little words - its rather sad. Their social norms are their social norms, they've lived on them, they're stuck to them, and they're way more slaves to life than we are.

Human beings are not ants or bees. if you surrender unconditionally to your most irrational instincts, I think you have no right to complain. For example, I know a girl who had a bf that treated her like s**t, he broke up with her, stole her half of the rent deposit for the place they were living in, kept furniture she had paid for, etc. Then he changed his mind and she went right back to him, he led her to believe he was going to propose to her (and she would've accepted), then changed his mind again and dumped her. They have no common interests and she cannot think of anything positive to say about him apart from looks. She is financiallly independent and there is no question that she was acting of her own free will. My thoughts on this are along the lines of 'You must go to hell in your own chosen way' and 'el que por su gusto muere, hasta la muerte le sabe.'

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01 Aug 2007, 4:18 am

On dating sites, people just don't respond to my messages at all (OkCupid at least).
Seriously.....I thought people outgrew that whole "Yep I'm just going to pretend to be interested and block you because i'm too much of a spineless jellyfish to say how I really feel" thing in high school. Hah...and they call me immature.
I liked your angry response, but personally I would've laid off the Caps Lock button.
One thing I've learned about this world: so many people are worthless louts. I don't want to meet many new people, because I'm sure most of them will be worthless louts and/or get sick of me (like usual).

In college and all that, people advise you to "try talking to everybody." That's some of the worst advice I've ever heard. I haven't quite started college yet....but all my friends I met were by chance, not by force. All the people I tried meeting by force ending up being worthless.

I know exactly how you feel though Jkrane....best of luck to you man.

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01 Aug 2007, 5:42 am

pbcoll wrote:

Human beings are not ants or bees.

I used to think that but then again it seems like there are SO many things we do that are just unbelievably lacking upstairs, the only explanation especially when it applies to people on such a broad basis is that free will is a bit illusionary and that even if you can be book smart and things like that your logical/analytical side really isn't what's pulling the strings.

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01 Aug 2007, 8:48 am

Cyanide wrote:

No, "try talking to everybody" is not a bad advice at all. It is just kind of a very important starting point. I had a hard time realising that but it is just true. The best way getting isolated from everything is not talking to other people.

I had to adjust my personal ruleset about people when I went to university. NTs get more mature and more serious and they develop more serious and more persistent fields of interest (let's say: some of them). I found that a big chunk of my behaviour I had to acquire just to survive in school would not last when being tested against this new situation.

No exaggeration please: The number of people I have regular contact and hanging around with is more like 3 than 30 but it is stable, beneficial and comfortable.

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01 Aug 2007, 1:59 pm

pbcoll wrote:

techstepgenr8tion wrote:

Human beings are not ants or bees. if you surrender unconditionally to your most irrational instincts, ... bla bla bla...

You missed his point.

Mother Nature is holding all of our leashes, you cannot escape her so long as you have a body.

Considering this is an AS borded and the origin of AS is the physical differances of the brain, I would hope everyone here realizes that who we can be is only who our biologies allow us to be.

I agree with techstepgenr8tion that there is no absolute free will. But at the same time I think some choice is possible, but that choice is only what our biologies allow us to have.

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01 Aug 2007, 2:47 pm

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Mother Nature is holding all of our leashes, you cannot escape her so long as you have a body.

Nah. You can recondition the pathways through your mind.
Change what things mean.

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I agree with techstepgenr8tion that there is no absolute free will.

I don't think I'd be able to bear what I do,
if I believed this.

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But at the same time I think some choice is possible, but that choice is only what our biologies allow us to have.

Freedom has to be unfettered to mean anything.

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01 Aug 2007, 3:31 pm

With most girls, once they believe you're waiting by the phone, they've already got what they're seeking: a hit of attention and validation. It's only when a girl wants more than this that she'll actually call after promising to. That's my latest theory, anyway.

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01 Aug 2007, 3:34 pm

jkrane wrote:

If women don't know what they want: WHY POST A PROFILE ON A DATING SITE???! !!
God damn. I'll never understand these human creatures.

Because they don't KNOW they don't know what they want. They think they know exactly what they want, until a flighty emotion comes along and changes everything -- ESPECIALLY with girls 18-21, to which you referred. IMHO, girls that age aren't even worth dealing with, most of 'em are so unpredictable and unstable.

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