How do you know if a guy is into you?

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Thanks. It's weird though. It's during one class, and I don't have any friends in it with me. I see him walking with his girlfriend sometimes, and she's always all happy, but he looks miserable. Could it possibly be that he doesn't talk to me because he doesn't want to upset his girlfriend? You're probably right, but I don't know. I go to a small school where everybody basically knows each other, and everybody is really nice. Dang it. I wish soomebody actually liked me for me.

Trust me hun, you will find someone who likes you for you, but one of the worst mistakes you can make is to grab an older guy at your age, because you will not get what you want. Keep looking, you have plenty of time. And don't take some of the stupid things boys your age do, because they feel the same way as you, and are just as nervous about the whole thing, if not more so.

Thanks.

nothing to worry about, If a guy likes you, he'll let you know. Besides your young, most guys of your age are still confused.

And here I thought that was more of a kindergarden thing.

15? at that age, they can barely walk and chew bubblegum around girls...

Shortly after puberty sets in, a boys' brain descends to the testicles, and usually lodges there until their 20s (but not always). The organ nearby does most of the thinking, and the heat and confined space may cause stupidity in thought, word, and deed...

They are best put in a barrell, and fed through the bunghole until 21. Then you decide whether to pound the bung in... - RA Heinlein...

Haha!! ! I totally agree. (Sorry guys. You know it's true.)

he proudly tells his friend that you are his girlfriend (even though he may have not asked you that question yet)

I wonder the same thing XD
I have this really cute guy that's in my history class, and he smiles at me a lot and talks to me sometimes. He doesn't know I have Aspergers though, so I'm scared to get closer in case he rejects me because of who I am
Sorry that I can't help you though, because I'm still trying to figure this out myself.

It's okay. This thread is for everybody.

First, read my above statements, as those situations will cause 80% of problems with high school aged girls and relationships.

If he's not more than a year older than you, then I'll give you normal relationship advice: Be honest and friendly, get to know him, but do not feel the need to be like I HAVE AS for no reason. Be forgiving of stupid adolescent things he does, but don't shrug off the hurtful things, try your best to communicate your feelings (and if he doesn't listen, he's not the guy for you).Get to know each other, and if he accepts you for who you are without the knowledge of your AS, then everything's fine, and you can eventually tell him one day as the relationship progresses, and you are comfortable with it.