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Well I thought it was funny.

This thread reeks of Letsgoblues.

Trying to play off as ignorance to get some sort of kick out of people trying to help.

I am not going to offer help, it is plain ovbious that this is totally made up.

must be a joke

okay people - if you think it's a joke, ignore the thread. if it transpires that it is, then you can laugh at us saps later. and i shall be as angry as anyone, if someone is making jokes at others' expense.

however, i am prepared to accept the veracity of the original poster, at this juncture, until there is evidence otherwise. i suggest that this thread is used for constructive comments only from now on.

thank you.

Vivi
(as Mod)

If we can't make jokes at others expense then what are we supposed to make them about? Is it just me, or is this whole site becoming a lot more authoritarian lately? This is the INTERNET. If someone is coming here asking for help from completely unqualified strangers like us, then they are a FOOL, and they deserve whatever they get. I mean what do you expect when you log onto some unofficial site for people with a neurological disorder who suffer from social and relationship issues? You expect a serious response? Half the people here could be completely crazy for all I know or care.

If you have a serious problem, go see a doctor- don't ask random clueless strangers on the internet. If you do, we shall assume it is a joke and laugh about you. Ha. Ha. Ha.

Seriously guys, lighten up. Suicide threads, help threads, oh noes- pretty f*****g scary, huh? Get a grip people... THE INTERNET IS SERIOUS BUSINESS!

Whoa! Backoff there Sanity...

GA

Moderators to sector 13, we have an act of uncompliance(joke). Im in two minds about this, i dislike overmoderation but i wouldnt like to add to someones suffering, particularly when some here dont have any friends or anyone they can trust IRL and this place is their safehouse sort of thing.

I'm compelled to believe it. I didn't know what f*ck was until I was almost 17.

in response to sanity's thread:

it's difficult to know what to do, quite honestly. on one hand, we as Moderators are told to be less heavy handed. on the other, we are asked to make the board less trivial, so people feel supported here.

sanity, perhaps you could elucidate exactly what you would like the Mods to do - you're free to post on the TOS revision thread, of course.

i don't use this board as a support, personally, but there are people who do. it's about getting a balance between those who use the board to play, and those who use it as their way of expressing, or being safe amongst other people with AS.

i also agree entirely that we cannot provide professional help, and it's dangerous even to imply that. but - and i'm speaking as a professional here - sometimes, just being heard is enough.

thank you.

Vivi
(as Mod)

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Last edited by Ante on 09 Nov 2005, 8:40 pm, edited 1 time in total.

it's not okay, ante, because people can't make an educated choice unless they know exactly what it all means - the ramifications, etc. as the girl was in a position of more knowledge, she was therefore in a position of power, and has abused that power. i would argue that it was not fully consensual.

lol

I was going to say something remotely funny but probably inappropriate, but it turns out this was a joke of some kind.

/me stands speechless and dumbfounded , in disbelief to how the original situation went.

WillFill, that girl was coming on to you. SHE LIKED YOU!! ! Unfortunately, that is pretty rare for aspie guys, at least from my experience, so I wouldn't let go of that chance. Although 13 is too young for sex in my opinion, I still can't believe you told her it was sexual harassment. In retrospect, if that happned to me at 13, I'd probably pass out from shock . But you said that you two are going to "study" again, so I guess it's all good. Best of luck to you.

Guys, if this is serious, WillFill is a MINOR. As far as US law is concerned, from what I know, no matter HOW MUCH he "enjoyed" it, it can't be consentual. It's statutory rape. Plus, if he's thirteen and doesn't know what sex is, he's not in a capacity to give consent anyway. (I know it can kind of be argued for some people who are very "mature" from some people's perspective- when I was in residential I knew a fourteen year old girl I believed to be either a geniune nymphomaniac or a teriffic liar, but then again, she was mentally ill.) It's not "cool" that he had sex at thirteen, if that's what happened. To drag the "if he was a girl" thing out again, what would you think if you heard about a thirteen-year-old girl having sex? Would you think "good for her" or "THAT PREDATOR!"? Of course I don't know how old the girl is- but if she knew that much about sex, she's probably at a higher mental age than wilfil at the very least.

Having said all that, I do suspect a prank. I just wanted to give a reality check here.

It is unfortunate that my post has created this controversy. Before I had relations with this woman, I did not know very much about human sexuality. I thought that if I took her shorts and underpants off I would be sexually harrassing her, but she taught me otherwise. My parents always told me sex was bad, but they were mistaken. I like it very much. I would have never known this if I did not take a risk and study with this girl. She is a notorious bad girl.

I was very scared at first because I did not know what was happening, and it was definitely outside my comfort zone. I thought I was sinning. I am comfortable with myself sexually now.