Hale_Bopp's "tear apart my okcupid profile" thread

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Yep - Windows 98 book clearly visible in the background!

This photo is very different from the others, not only because of the make-up, but because it has a very "amateur" feel to it - you're in the corner, partly cut off, head tilted. The other photos look much more professional. So if the point of the experiment is to have a completely different "feel" to the photo it should do the trick, but if the point is to isolate the make-up as a factor then maybe not.

Should be interesting either way, so I hope you let us know what happens.

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it won't let me open it either lol. She is attractive shouldn't be an issue to have one where there is no makeup or atleast very little. I'd go with little if you always wear some none if you rarely do. Personally I prefer women to wear very little just because it isn't hiding it's aiding

same, a girl that wears a crap load of makeup is a turn off for me anyways. It's a sign she isn't comfortable with her own looks and a lack of confidence. A little bit is what I'd prefer.

simply right click over the image and select "view image".

and breast implants theirs a allegedly aspie on you tube who's big boobed , massive turn off is she going to do porn? I can think of no other reasons unless she was majorly teased for being flat chested even than why go to that extreme,? I would like to think autistics would know better than that r

and what's wrong with flat chests some of my fave porn * are flat chested like sasaha grey and Ashley long , now all they need to do is bring back the hair !

I think you look younger with out the make up bop if that's important to you ?

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Some women just want them bigger?

but why? I'd like a bigger penis though common senses stops going through with it that and I'm never going to put it to good use

oh and the make up thing if she wants to catch a superior man (nt) she has got to do what a girls got to do lucky for her in the minds of nearly all superior men she doesn't need work in the boob department.

the way I see it it's all good if it's natural and their booth their

perhaps I can show you around I think that's one of the few times I crave a moment with a women in my company that most importantly (from my observations ) theirs is less pressure to be sociable , take it all in and enjoy the moment

Regarding the moment I want to be blown away awestruck in fact how about St Petersburg or Moscow , we can meet Putin and wrestle black bears with him

do we have any Russian autistics? yeah Russia !

If you could do 2-3 pictures with minimal make up and just relaxed (one with hair down one with hair up) wearing dorky tee shirts or clothes that don't sexualise you too much, you will probably have a better chance attracting the type of guy I suspect you tend to be attracted to.

Hope you don't mind my 2 pence worth. Go get them gurl!

I agree. This is a fantastic pic, books and all, and I think it speaks more to who you really are.

When I met my late fiance, the photos I had on my profile were 1) me standing in front of my motorcycle, fully geared up, with awful helmet hair and sunglasses on (i.e., you couldn't really even see my face that well), and 2) in a shapeless winter coat shooting a potato cannon. I used those pictures because I thought they best conveyed the essence of me, more than I possibly could have with words.

...Is it weird that I'm kind of turned on by the fact that you're wearing a Majora's Mask shirt?

Hale Bop - aside from what others have posted, here are my thoughts on profiles (I don't have a OKC - I was on Match, now not on anywhere):

1. Guys are visually stimulated so they do wanna see attractive pics. Make-up pics will attract different types of guys to your profile than pics with no make-up, so try both. But posting pics that "show what you are about" is best left for male profiles that are trying to attract women (women are achievement-stimulated).
2. More importantly, none of your pics show you with other people. Unless you are trying to only attract Aspie geek types in particular, more than 3 selfies taken in your room just looks, well, odd. (Guys writing profiles take note!!)
At least include the cat, or taken somewhere other than your room, to show that you have something going on outside of those 4 walls
Good luck!

Oh, and i should add - As an attractive (I'm told) geeky (I know) female, none of my friends understand why i'm still single. The closest I've ever got to understanding it is that I'm often more intelligent than the guy and too intimidating, so no one tries.
That and the fact that once you've had someone really really special, its hard to replace them...

In that picture, I would suggest removing the Windows 98 book. It's a minor detail, but it could lead people to think the picture is a very old pic.

Maybe throw in a full body picture that has your face.

I would omit this from your profile, especially if your having issues with solicitation.

I completely disagree. I like the Windows 98 book. It shows she isn't full of herself (you know the typical girl stereotype that they think they are too good for anybody unless they are perfect) . It also makes her look approachable (omg, a girl with a Windows 98 book?!? Maybe I have a chance?) The stuff in parenthesis is what some guys are probably thinking when they see that picture. I would keep it...