04 Jul 2018, 2:05 pm
Peacesells wrote:
cberg wrote:
All hail king threadkiller? Dude when did I ever say a word to you?/quote]
Like, the last 5 pages??? Are you trolling or what?
As I said I don't care about your philosophy unless you try to impose it on others, then I might get a bit less tolerant.
Like, the last 5 pages??? Are you trolling or what?
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My philosophy is MINE and you have nothing to do with it, you can't demonstrably keep up.
As I said I don't care about your philosophy unless you try to impose it on others, then I might get a bit less tolerant.
cberg wrote:
Obviously I'm a convinient target for your animosity
Perhaps you didn't notice that you were the one who started the animosity.
I will not respond to any of your provocations anymore after this merely because I see that some nice people want to be back on thread, otherwise I'd have no problem going on calling out your bs for the next 50 years.
Dude you're dissecting my sex life across multiple threads with Booyakasha. It's creepy.
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04 Jul 2018, 2:10 pm
Booyakasha wrote:
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Booyakasha wrote:
that friend of mine that used mushrooms, never had a date in his life, he's now 35.
If you're talking about me I've had plenty of dates/hookups, just never been in a relationship in my life.
no, i don't even know your name
i didn't know we were friends lolsome other friend
I thought you were simply phrasing that to reference me is all.
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04 Jul 2018, 3:10 pm
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But, knowing what I know now, and knowing there's been extended periods where I haven't had a sex drive and thus didn't bother having sex (different than wanting it and not getting it, I realize) and having more life experience.. I'm more of the mindset of one of my high school friends back then who said "It's just sex." As in, "So what? Who cares? It's a thing. It happens. People enjoy it. BUT, it's not everything." Easy for someone to say who's having sex vs. someone who isn't, but Truly, I now see his point. Once you've passed that point of virginity stress/pressure, and especially if you've had a lot of sex whether with one significant other or multiple partners, while it's still sex and still a very pleasurable human experience, it just becomes.. not something that you put up on on such a pedestal anymore. It's not THAT big of deal anymore and you're way better able to focus on other things in life worthy of your time & energy, whether that's a special interest or hobby or volunteer work or sports or whatever - there's PLENTY more to life than sex. I know, I know, easier said than done for the mindset of someone who is involuntarily celibate.. but if there is one thing I could teach someone who is involuntarily celibate to do if I were able, it would be that. So that they could genuinely enjoy themselves and their lives w/o the nagging feeling that they want to get laid but can't seem to pull it off.
This! A thousand times, this!I remember being a virgin at 22, when I used fall over myself and bend over backwards for a chance at sex. Until I lost my virginity to an escort in 2005. Between then and 2017, I had sex with 36 escorts. Tall, short, petite, full-figured, 21, 51, blonde, brunette, redhead, mainstream, fetishist, I've been with them all! One time, in 2010, I even had a threesome with two bisexual escorts; I came close to calling off work next morning, and it took two weeks to stop smiling!
By contrast, I had sex for free 5 times, first time in 2007, and they were all quite meh.In 2017, I developed a massive aversion to sex, to the point of being disgusted by it. Even porn disgusts me now. It was caused by seeing people get into relationships (which means sex) that are like prisons, nothing related to my escort habit. (Which was dangerous too, since I put in a lot of effort into dodging the police.) As a result, I feel how many aspie men wish they could feel: completely apathetic toward sex, if not outright disgusted by it. Unfortunately, the only way to reach that state, is after having sex enough times to treat as a closed chapter in life.
04 Jul 2018, 3:42 pm
I wouldn't really say that about myself. Some people spend so much time with technology that we don't really care one way or another.
I'm just happy there are people in my life at all.
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04 Jul 2018, 3:45 pm
Aspie1 wrote:
Unfortunately, the only way to reach that state, is after having sex enough times to treat as a closed chapter in life.
Hmm, I wouldn't call it a "closed chapter," more like... "level unlocked," - and you can go back and play it anytime you want to - if you want to, but at least you've achieved it kind of thing.
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04 Jul 2018, 4:48 pm
Some of us require said better reason(s) in the first place.
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04 Jul 2018, 5:11 pm
cberg wrote:
Some of us require said better reason(s) in the first place.
Different, not necessarily better.
I’m a-okay with just sex. Often. Doesn’t mean my reasoning is lesser or worse, just different.
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Oh sorry I didn't think Aspie1 or I was implying that, to me it's more a matter of needing lots of time around someone before I even go near the subject.
Though as your thread says that in no way affects the mutual good parts of my life. If it does, that's just societal conditioning.
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05 Jul 2018, 12:42 am
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05 Jul 2018, 12:48 am
Aspie1 wrote:
cberg wrote:
Oh sorry I didn't think Aspie1 or I was implying that, to me it's more a matter of needing lots of time around someone before I even go near the subject.
You're right. I'm not the type who needs to get to know the woman well before having sex with her. I never was. It's just that back in my 20's, sex felt hot, interesting, and exciting, every single time. Today in my 30's, the idea of sex feels disgusting, both escort and free. I don't even like kissing anymore, unless I'm really drunk. The only interactions with women I still enjoy are hugs, holding hands, and dancing.
That said, my mindset is hard to understand if you haven't had a lot of sex in your young years. I don't mean to rub it in anyone's face. But my statement still stands.
I’ve had WAY more sex than you and still find your mindset hard to understand.
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07 Jul 2018, 12:37 pm
^you aged 72 years in 6 years? 
