The_Face_of_Boo
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RetroGamer87
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22 Jun 2018, 3:51 am
Luhluhluh wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
She should buy me a present. When's she going to buy me a BlackBerry Watch?
Is she the giving sort at all?You are in quite a pickle, my friend. You need to decide what it is that you really want.
Peacesells wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Luhluhluh wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
The fact that she does these things doesn't mean that he has to marry her after a year, especially since they have all these arguments and stuff.
After a year isn't so bad. I told her I don't want to get married the next day.hale_bopp wrote:
Now that you mentioned she cooks for you, the whole donut-gate seems way worse.
I have my own *gate scandal? Cool! Move over Nixon 
Luhluhluh wrote:
What I'm trying to say is that these two are obviously on two different wave lengths and not effectively communicating with each other.
I know! In some ways she's very nice but she either doesn't communicate or she doesn't communicate in a way that I can understand.Booyakasha wrote:
So, to recapitulate: (apologies if something is omitted):
she gives him silent treatment over a doughnut...then she threatens to leave him because he got confused in a quarrel and left...then she says they could have an open relationship so she could find a better boyfriend. Then after a bit of negotiation, she's agreeing to get married tomorrow. And on top of everything, she gets a watch, which she requested - i suppose for her meritorious service, since she's not helping financially.
she gives him silent treatment over a doughnut...then she threatens to leave him because he got confused in a quarrel and left...then she says they could have an open relationship so she could find a better boyfriend. Then after a bit of negotiation, she's agreeing to get married tomorrow. And on top of everything, she gets a watch, which she requested - i suppose for her meritorious service, since she's not helping financially.
Booyakasha wrote:
Yep. That just about sums it up.
Booyakasha wrote:
it amazes me how some people can get away with anything.
22 Jun 2018, 4:15 am
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Yeah! How does she get away with all that?
If i got this right - you don't want to be alone, and people generally speaking prefer staying in bad relationships since they've already put a lot of energy into it....and discarding it all would mean it was all for nought.
And you're not sure if you can find anything better....and whether you even have the energy to try anything new...and you know her more or less, and it's very easy to come up with a lot of different excuses for her behaviour, since you care about her.
So this is like an inertion issue - the energy required for something new exceeds the amount of energy needed to preserve this....and she's nicer and kinder if she gets an expensive watch
so, that watch seems like a cheap price to pay for keeping the status quo and for keeping your girlfriend. that's just my guess, open to correction.
22 Jun 2018, 5:00 am
The_Face_of_Boo
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22 Jun 2018, 5:12 am
22 Jun 2018, 5:18 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
SEX power!
yeah, for a price of a watch
The_Face_of_Boo
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22 Jun 2018, 5:19 am
TheSpectrum wrote:
Nah Booya that is exactly the situation with Retrogamer, and actually serves as a good example for Kip.
My prescription for these guys:
2 pills per day, one in the morning and one at night.
And if girlfriend humiliates you on that day, take one extra at lunch time.
22 Jun 2018, 5:20 am
RetroGamer87
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22 Jun 2018, 6:53 am
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RetroGamer87
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22 Jun 2018, 8:12 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
My prescription for these guys:
2 pills per day, one in the morning and one at night.
And if girlfriend humiliates you on that day, take one extra at lunch time.
2 pills per day, one in the morning and one at night.
And if girlfriend humiliates you on that day, take one extra at lunch time.
I thought you were gonna post a red pill image.
22 Jun 2018, 8:33 am
