Soulmates

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^Maybe you should lower your standards. In high school I had a crush on a super hot girl and I was told I have no chance with her and should try for the ugly ones instead. Trouble is, I'm not into ugly girls.

Yeah..I cannot be into someone I can't...that's the theory of the Clicking.

A click with someone happens. You know that sly..

To click, in this context, means when two people are mutually interested.
My mom asked me if I saw any pretty girls at uni and I said that I'm not into any of them and she was like "You're too picky.", just a classmate once told me. My parents would like me to have a girlfriend but I don't see that ever happening.
On the other hand, I read on the Internet that having low standards makes you desperate, so you should be selective.
Contradictory information.

I had that 'click' recently, and now I'm greatly happy!

^Can you tell us more?

^I don't know. It's hard to describe, and when I try to put it into words it just seems ridiculous. Therefore, I have concluded that 'clicks' are something that can be known and experienced and felt with the heart or soul, not described in words.

Did you find a boyfriend or what?
Or did you just realize you are your own soulmate?

^Actually I am my own soulmate because of my inner self, but that's beside the point since there are many different kinds of soulmates.

It saddens me to see how obliviously happy you are, but I hope you'll get a real soulmate one day.

I think it's good if you are your own soul-mate---unless it precludes you from acquiring a soul-mate outside of yourself.

I'm not my own soul-mate.

^Well said, Kraftie!

Being your own soulmate may be considered narcissistic, but I'm not here to judge and I don't care anyway.

^To be your own soulmate means being loving and kind and respectful of yourself. At least, that's how I see it.