Do we have a chance at dating the really attractive ones?
When almost no girl has ever expressed an attraction to you physically, not even a girlfriend you were laying in bed doing foreplay with, and when you are unhealthily obsessed with trying to build muscle because you care about fitness but also to compensate for flaws and to raise you pathetically poor self esteem, and you can see where the body image issues come from.
Your not alone sly and I'm fricken average size.
-pinches bridge of nose-
Reading through this putrid cesspool of a thread makes me so damn happy I turned out to be a lesbian, even if the dating pool around my area is crap and lacking in fellow lezzie aspies/auties. I thought I was salty and butthurt about not finding girls to date in middle school (and in present day) but man some of you are on a whole 'nother plane of salty existence.
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There are some men who just accept that they are overweight. These men don't need a male fat acceptance movement because they have self-acceptance and they don't need approval from everyone else.
The difference is in how men and women want to deal with their emotions. If someone told you it's ok that you're single, you wouldn't feel any better. You want a practical solution to your problem, i.e. a girlfriend.
This is how the majority of men and women are. Of course there are exceptions on both sides.
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I didn't want to see a prostitute before because I didn't want to lose my virginity to one. That is no longer a problem. I've been in contact with one but I haven't committed yet.
I don't know if she's a drug addict or whatever, she claims she's a uni student who wants money to pay off her fees. That seems like a legitimate reason. Better than paying your fees working minimum wage. I don't if that's the real reason but that's what she claims.
Her fees are about half the price compared with the brothels near me. Then again the brothels have much hotter girls than her.
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There are some men who just accept that they are overweight. These men don't need a male fat acceptance movement because they have self-acceptance and they don't need approval from everyone else.
The difference is in how men and women want to deal with their emotions. If someone told you it's ok that you're single, you wouldn't feel any better. You want a practical solution to your problem, i.e. a girlfriend.
This is how the majority of men and women are. Of course there are exceptions on both sides.
Likewise I wouldn't always seek a solution to women's problems. I'd just listen and cuddle her
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There are some men who just accept that they are overweight. These men don't need a male fat acceptance movement because they have self-acceptance and they don't need approval from everyone else.
The difference is in how men and women want to deal with their emotions. If someone told you it's ok that you're single, you wouldn't feel any better. You want a practical solution to your problem, i.e. a girlfriend.
This is how the majority of men and women are. Of course there are exceptions on both sides.
Likewise I wouldn't always seek a solution to women's problems. I'd just listen and cuddle her
As I said, there are exceptions on both sides. Not everyone fits in the middle of the bell curve.
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Reading through this putrid cesspool of a thread makes me so damn happy I turned out to be a lesbian, even if the dating pool around my area is crap and lacking in fellow lezzie aspies/auties. I thought I was salty and butthurt about not finding girls to date in middle school (and in present day) but man some of you are on a whole 'nother plane of salty existence.
This is being just plain toxic and unhelpful, calling the peoples posts here a 'putrid cesspool'.
Your also 'happy' you aren't attracted to men, because we are so awful, aren't we?
I hope you know there's plenty of good men in this world, it makes me a little uncomfortable how many lesbians I've met whom hate men, there is even a Feminist movement of lesbian women against men.
Wrongplanet is supposed to be a support forum.
Besides, the lonely men here complaining isnt even that bad.
We are just sad and should have every right to vent our frustrations.
If you REALLY want to see what bitter, salty, hateful single men look like, try r/Incel or r9k or /b/ or look at archives of the now defunct Sl-thate.com.
Personally im bisexual and its just as frustrating to not find a single male interested in me either as online dating comes to absolutely nothing
A single gay guy who thought I was good looking in high school, but we has incompatible personalities.
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Your also 'happy' you aren't attracted to men, because we are so awful, aren't we?
I hope you know there's plenty of good men in this world, it makes me a little uncomfortable how many lesbians I've met whom hate men, there is even a Feminist movement of lesbian women against men.
SJWs are allowed to insult anyone because SJWs are always right.
But if you insult an SJW it's wrong!! ![/sarcasm]
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If im that much richer than women, then they'd be homeless by now. XD
Thing is, I am against political correctness and safe spaces where no one can be offended, but I do believe on the idea of (semi-)civil discussion. I'm sure you'd agree with that.
In this case, yeah your entitled to your opinion, but controversial opinion does not equal slander/hate
It's a matter of "I don't agree with gay marriage, I am opposed to homosexuality" vs. "F*ck those f-gots and their gay mariage"
The SJWs would still be offended by the first one even if it invites civil discussion.
Civility means niether over sensitive types or overaggressive types making Issue with the discussion
Theres definitely a big difference between civil discussion and PCness.
Reddit is relatively civil aside from the occasional troll, WP is PC SJW land, and good ol 4chan is the other extreme - very aggressive, politically incorrect and uncivilness.
Thing is, I am against political correctness and safe spaces where no one can be offended, but I do believe on the idea of (semi-)civil discussion. I'm sure you'd agree with that.
In this case, yeah your entitled to your opinion, but controversial opinion does not equal slander/hate
It's a matter of "I don't agree with gay marriage, I am opposed to homosexuality" vs. "F*ck those f-gots and their gay mariage"
The SJWs would still be offended by the first one even if it invites civil discussion.
Civility means niether over sensitive types or overaggressive types making Issue with the discussion
Theres definitely a big difference between civil discussion and PCness.
Reddit is relatively civil aside from the occasional troll, WP is PC SJW land, and good ol 4chan is the other extreme - very aggressive, politically incorrect and uncivilness.
How is WP SJW land? Your in for a massive shock if you think it is. Genuinely people here are extremely tame by other standards. In fact all I see in PPR is people complaining about SJW and Lefties
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Lucky..Asian women don't seem to lokw black guys, people always see them with white men.
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