Bethie
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01 Apr 2011, 5:55 am
emuman100 wrote:
I found really simple way to gauge whether I need to lose weight or not. If I find it difficult to bend down to tie my shoes or clip my toe nails because my big stomach is in the way, then I need to lose weight. 
No embarrassing weighing in or complex calorie counting. If there is any reason to lose weight, it's so you can easily bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails, because with a big stomach in the way it really suffocates you. You women have it easy. It would be much better to have the weight on your hips, thighs, and butt because it would be so much easier to bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails. Maybe that's why I like women with big butts.
Just my two cents.
No embarrassing weighing in or complex calorie counting. If there is any reason to lose weight, it's so you can easily bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails, because with a big stomach in the way it really suffocates you. You women have it easy. It would be much better to have the weight on your hips, thighs, and butt because it would be so much easier to bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails. Maybe that's why I like women with big butts. Just my two cents.
So...is the analogue of this
whether you knock things off tables with your rear end when you turn around?
Cause...I do that...
01 Apr 2011, 5:58 am
01 Apr 2011, 6:40 am
all_white wrote:
Erisad wrote:
it sucks to get a break up message over Runescape chat. :/
It sucks even more not to get a break-up message at all, and to have to hack into your nerd's email to find out he's been leading a secret double life.
Husband-stealing sluts suck big time. They suck so much that your husband films them sucking, apparently.
Back to weight.
Who all weighed themself today?
I weighed myself on Wednesday. I maintained my weight but that's better than gaining. I forgot to measure my waist and hips so I'll do that later. I keep a weight-loss log as I go.
Bethie
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01 Apr 2011, 6:49 am
I'm scared of mine...I skipped two days of weight loss pills (I HAD to...) and I also ate more than usual (that being a plate of steamed veggies and some salad).
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
01 Apr 2011, 6:49 am
@emilion
ooh where are the men who voted thin/curvy girls.
back it up with reasons, men.
[b]well becasue thin curvy women have more characater, they have more pride in them selves and they make a man look and feel good in them selves. U no, they have hit gold and scored. 
Bethie
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01 Apr 2011, 6:51 am
HodgeieHodgeMarcel wrote:
@emilion
ooh where are the men who voted thin/curvy girls.
back it up with reasons, men.
[b]well becasue thin curvy women have more characater, they have more pride in them selves and they make a man look and feel good in them selves. U no, they have hit gold and scored.
ooh where are the men who voted thin/curvy girls.
back it up with reasons, men.
[b]well becasue thin curvy women have more characater, they have more pride in them selves and they make a man look and feel good in them selves. U no, they have hit gold and scored.
01 Apr 2011, 6:55 am
Bethie wrote:
I'm scared of mine...I skipped two days of weight loss pills (I HAD to...) and I also ate more than usual (that being a plate of steamed veggies and some salad).
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
I cant weigh myself, if I put on weight when dieting I get so disheartend and end up binging making it all worse
I have to not weigh myself and just keep telling myself to keep going.
Bethie
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01 Apr 2011, 7:02 am
lotusblossom wrote:
Bethie wrote:
I'm scared of mine...I skipped two days of weight loss pills (I HAD to...) and I also ate more than usual (that being a plate of steamed veggies and some salad).
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
I cant weigh myself, if I put on weight when dieting I get so disheartend and end up binging making it all worse
I have to not weigh myself and just keep telling myself to keep going.That's happened to me before...
but if I don't see some progress, the hell I'm going through is hard to submit to day after day.
01 Apr 2011, 7:41 am
Bethie wrote:
lotusblossom wrote:
Bethie wrote:
I'm scared of mine...I skipped two days of weight loss pills (I HAD to...) and I also ate more than usual (that being a plate of steamed veggies and some salad).
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
I cant weigh myself, if I put on weight when dieting I get so disheartend and end up binging making it all worse
I have to not weigh myself and just keep telling myself to keep going.That's happened to me before...
but if I don't see some progress, the hell I'm going through is hard to submit to day after day.
I know, its so hard to keep up, I loose 14 lbs and then cant keep suffering and put it back on again, Ive lost the same 14 lbs repeatedly for 10 years!! At the moment Im so starving and exercising so much and I still bearly loose a pound a week
Bethie
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01 Apr 2011, 7:59 am
lotusblossom wrote:
Bethie wrote:
lotusblossom wrote:
Bethie wrote:
I'm scared of mine...I skipped two days of weight loss pills (I HAD to...) and I also ate more than usual (that being a plate of steamed veggies and some salad).
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
Basically, I lost ten pounds last week, and anything less than that, I'll be bummed.
If only I could maintain that loss at the same rate, I'd be skinneh in no timez!
Weigh-in is Sunday.
I cant weigh myself, if I put on weight when dieting I get so disheartend and end up binging making it all worse
I have to not weigh myself and just keep telling myself to keep going.That's happened to me before...
but if I don't see some progress, the hell I'm going through is hard to submit to day after day.
I know, its so hard to keep up, I loose 14 lbs and then cant keep suffering and put it back on again, Ive lost the same 14 lbs repeatedly for 10 years!! At the moment Im so starving and exercising so much and I still bearly loose a pound a week
On the topic of gaining and losing,
my original plan (after I went on diet pills last time)
was to keep within five or ten lbs of my goal weight,
eating normally, and then dieting them back off
(I absolutely cannot eat like a normal person continuously, or else I'd be huge)
but that spiraled out of control until I gained back (far) more than I'd lost.
I HAVE to stick to that goal this time-
dieting off and gaining back 5 or 10 lbs all the time
is much easier on your body than dieting off and gaining back SEVENTY.
01 Apr 2011, 9:58 am
01 Apr 2011, 9:58 am
01 Apr 2011, 10:04 am
zen_mistress wrote:
I apologise. It was an insensitive thing to write. I had my reasons for writing it but I guess it is more related to my life, I dont think what I was saying applied to your situation, which has some different factors.
I apologise, too.
Objectively, I am aware that what I wrote sounded very aggressive, and that you were just making a generalisation.
Emotionally (yeah - Aspies have emotions - who knew?) I felt that you were getting at ME, even though you were generalising, and it just hit a sore spot. Contrary to what you seemed to be assuming, I have a LOT of anger towards my treacherous nerd. Enough anger to fill the whole world. So I guess some of that came out in my post, and it seemed like I was angry at you.
By the way - I wasn't rolling my eyes at you per se - I was just following advice from another person and using smilies to help out Aspie readers and indicate that I was using sarcasm.
I guess that's not a good idea. Maybe next time I should use some of my arrows:
<--------- Warning: all_white is about to be sarcastic.
blablablablabla insert sarcastic text here
<---------- Relax: all_white is being normal again.
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01 Apr 2011, 10:09 am
emuman100 wrote:
I found really simple way to gauge whether I need to lose weight or not. If I find it difficult to bend down to tie my shoes or clip my toe nails because my big stomach is in the way, then I need to lose weight. No embarrassing weighing in or complex calorie counting. If there is any reason to lose weight, it's so you can easily bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails, because with a big stomach in the way it really suffocates you. You women have it easy. It would be much better to have the weight on your hips, thighs, and butt because it would be so much easier to bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails. Maybe that's why I like women with big butts.
Just my two cents.
No embarrassing weighing in or complex calorie counting. If there is any reason to lose weight, it's so you can easily bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails, because with a big stomach in the way it really suffocates you. You women have it easy. It would be much better to have the weight on your hips, thighs, and butt because it would be so much easier to bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails. Maybe that's why I like women with big butts. Just my two cents.
LOL that's a good method.
My method used to be: "if I can't fit into any of my trousers / jeans, then I'm getting too fat."
But then I ditched all the jeans and trousers and turned to being an exclusively skirt-wearing female, so now I am free!
You are right - the weight comes and goes on the hips and rear end, but not (in my case, anyway) on the waist. So skirts are 1,000 times better than trousers, because, as long as your waist measurement stays the same, you can still wear that skirt whether your bum is having a big phase or a slightly smaller phase. LOL
emuman100 wrote:
If there is any reason to lose weight, it's so you can easily bend down and tie your shoes or clip your toe nails
On a more serious note, there are other reasons to lose weight, which include avoiding diabetes and serious health problems. But I'm sure all the people hear already know that.
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Bethie
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01 Apr 2011, 10:12 am
hyperlexian wrote:
i have noticed on dating sites that men who are looking for an LTR tend to want a thinner woman. interesting.
I know.
01 Apr 2011, 10:13 am
HodgeieHodgeMarcel wrote:
@emilion
ooh where are the men who voted thin/curvy girls.
back it up with reasons, men.
[b]well becasue thin curvy women have more characater, they have more pride in them selves and they make a man look and feel good in them selves. U no, they have hit gold and scored.
ooh where are the men who voted thin/curvy girls.
back it up with reasons, men.
[b]well becasue thin curvy women have more characater, they have more pride in them selves and they make a man look and feel good in them selves. U no, they have hit gold and scored.
They're probably afraid of getting attacked or being seen as shallow. >.<
Well, my goal was to lose 50 pounds each year for two years to get back down to where I want to be. I'm 29 pounds down in 7 months so far, so I have 4 more months to lose another 21 pounds to stay on track with my goal. If I go 1 lb a week, this should be relatively easy to achieve so long as I keep to my diet and exercise.
