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10 Feb 2013, 6:59 pm

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Even if they ARE airbrushed, what does that mean? That good boobs are best and wanting somone with small ones is perverted and weird, and having small ones is sad and pitiful.

So your boyfriend is perverted now?
I hope he reads this thread and dumps you like a sack of crap.

I don't think he's perverted. Society seems to think so because he likes crappy boobs.

You seem to think so because you said so.



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10 Feb 2013, 7:11 pm

"Better to be happy with the fruitful grape,
Than to sadden over none,or bitter fruit."

Omar Khayyam

be careful,or you will be bitter fruit.


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10 Feb 2013, 7:27 pm

EmoGlambertAspie wrote:
No. Showing them to another guy (except a doctor during an examination) bare is cheating. Plus I already know they aren't good. My boyfriend said society will say a lot of sh** I shouldn't take to heart but I can't help it.


I am totally confident that I can convince you to show them (and you wouldn't be able to resist).

But I wouldn't use that technique since it's manupilative and kinda immoral.



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10 Feb 2013, 7:52 pm

^^^^^^as long as it's not illegal......


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10 Feb 2013, 8:01 pm

I won't do that. It's wrong.


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10 Feb 2013, 8:21 pm

EmoGlambertAspie wrote:
And that's why I broke up with him. I wasn't attracted to him. I didn't strung him along and leer at other men and compare them to him like guys do with women. "My girlfriend is flat chested, but I guess she's okay and better than nothing." I didn't act like that. I realized I didn't like him and broke it off quickly.


The only place your boyfriend is doing that is in your imagination.


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10 Feb 2013, 8:48 pm

My boyfriend doesn't do that but it seems a lot of guys do.


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10 Feb 2013, 9:01 pm

EmoGlambertAspie wrote:
My boyfriend doesn't do that but it seeks a lot of guys do.
Some do most really dont it depends on the guy. Any decent man could care less about breast size as long as the woman has a compatible personality. I would prefer a woman with small boobs that is nice to me over an abusive cold hearted woman who has big boobs any day.


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10 Feb 2013, 9:49 pm

EmoGlambertAspie wrote:
My boyfriend doesn't do that but it seems a lot of guys do.


Did you hide and watch?
How do you know?
Are you a peeping Tom? er,Tomasina???


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10 Feb 2013, 9:59 pm

Misslizard wrote:
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My boyfriend doesn't do that but it seems a lot of guys do.


Did you hide and watch?
How do you know?
Are you a peeping Tom? er,Tomasina???
I do have that feeling I am being watched *looks over his shoulder shudders in fear and cries as he showers!*


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10 Feb 2013, 10:25 pm

No, it's just I have the feeling most guys are like that and will compare their women unfavorably to others.


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10 Feb 2013, 10:39 pm

Well, your feeling is not based in reality and it is insulting when you state it as fact.



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10 Feb 2013, 10:40 pm

Men are just happy boobies exist,boobies of all sizes,shapes and colors.
Do you judge men by their penis size?
Do you judge people by their height,body weight,etc........
The human body is a living work of art.
Why don't you enjoy it?
Why don't you just feast your eyes?


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10 Feb 2013, 10:42 pm

It's pretty damn hard to when you know you don't stack up because of your stupid flat chest being considered ugly and undesirable to society.


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10 Feb 2013, 10:52 pm

You have all these people on this thread who have told you otherwise.
Has one person besides yourself referred to your breasts in the negative context that you do?
Who is saying your breasts are unacceptable,YOU,no one else but you.
Look in the mirror,you are your own worst critic.And your own destroyer.


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10 Feb 2013, 11:02 pm

Tell me why EVERYTHING I've EVER seen for men woth a woman had a woman with good boobs. At least Ds. :( Not repulsive, disgusting mmosquito notes like mine.


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