Is this what happens? (Men only.)

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I edited my OP to show what I meant.

If he chickens out from going on dates, it allows him to blame women rather than face being rejected as the w*ker he is.

Likely the reason he couldn't even stomach the thought of women offering their honest opinions ("Men Only") on an online forum like this.

I really how far you've come and how level-headed you're being about it, but I usually figured that most of the women in out age group had better stuff to do than start long-term relationships. Are these girls in college? Maybe they want something a little less long-term because they really don't know what they're looking for. I really wish I could tell if a woman was acting over-entitled, I f love is a battlefield, those are the mines.

I think it's a good idea to have a more realistic idea of what to expect, and it really sounds like you do, but it's hard to find love when you're looking for it, I can't do it and people who try seem to be frequently in and out of relationships. The best advice I have for you is to focus on other areas of your life and give this area some more time.

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Look who's feeling entitled.

(And naturally, I'm just hatin' on him and the rest of the world because I'm ugly and fat.)

Bethie, first, this is why I said men only. Second, if you think I'm the only guy that judges women on their physical appearance (or that women don't do the same thing) you need life lessons.

Lotusblossom...I think you're confusing me with someone else. I had an opportunity to meet a 49 year old woman for no-strings-attached sex, and thought better of it. I'm not afraid of women, but I don't associate with unattractive women.

You're placing way too much blame on women. It's not really thier fault that they go for what nature intended them too. No more than it's our fault we value physically attractive women more.

I think this is more how it happens:

We want women, but we aren't what they want
> we learn techniques to get women and it works
> the women we get learn despite our techniques, we still aren't what they want
> we learn our short term success is all we're capable of. We accept it, and repeat it

For example, women are naturally attracted to guys with high social status. This is a world where "who you know" is more important than "what you know", and it makes sense that this quality is very important in a potential mate. I lack the ability and the will to attain even mediocre social status. Once what got them interested in me wears off (usually sexual attraction), they realize this shortcoming and move on.

I hate to say it, but if those are the only women that are "biting," then that is your league.

It is like claiming that you will only drive exotic sports cars, but you only have $500 to spend. If you want to drive a car, then you have to accept the beat up pickup truck the market is offering you.



Or maybe, just possibly, those NT women just don't like you.



I don't think you truly understand "how young women really are." It seems to me from your posts that you are trying to apply a set of black-and-white rules to your evaluation of women and your understanding of them.

I posit that your understanding of women will prove to be wrong far more often than right. People come in numerous shades of grey that can only be truly seen when you get to know people as individuals.

GayTypingOnComputer, women want men that are out of their league. A woman that is my equivalent...a 6 or 7 on the 10 scale...is busy fantasizing about guy's that are 10s, and won't settle, because they don't have to, simply because they have a p****y.

I think you are projecting your view of the world onto women. You appear to be the one who is busy fantasizing about women who are out of your league and won't settle for the women who are willing to date you. You have insuated repeatedly that you feel the women who will date you are beneath you. I suggest you recalibrate the "foreveryoung 1-10 scale."

You may be operating under a faulty premise. In my experience, women who are "a 6 or 7 on the 10 scale" are actually out there dating. Just because a woman is not dating you, does not mean she is not dating and sitting around "fantasizing about guy's that are 10s, and won't settle."

It's called p***y power man. The fact that a woman has a p***y gives her more attention than a male counterpart of the same attractiveness. I have a friend that's a kind 5 on the 10 scale and gets men calling her up for sex all the time, and she doesn't care since she loves sex and is having sex with men out of her league (dating-wise.)

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Also, I'm not looking for a female 10. I'm just looking for a cute girl in the same attractiveness level as myself, which I have gotten before.

I like that you don't feel entitled to the hollywood types, but you're still showing a lot of interests in their looks. I mean I have standards too, but some of the people I've fallen for the hardest were people I didn't even notice at first. Whenever I get turned down, I go out and enjoy life a little and try to find something more to bring to the table. This is some common guy advice from men who get results, go round yourself out a little (or even more) then continue looking.

This is more relevant to his locked threads than this one, but why hasen't this troll been banned yet? Come on, mods, you're locking lots of his threads for a reason, ban the green hairy creature and send him back under his bridge.

He was banned.

Oh yes. Sweet, sweet justice. Good job, Quatermass! Keep up the troll banning!