Parents nosy about your dating life or lack thereof?

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My father doesn't interfere in my personal life, being divorced from my mother and living 13 miles away, I don't always see him anyway, I don't tell him everything either.

Its my mother and sister who interfere. They know I am sexually active and sometimes ask me what I got up and asking me if I put the condom on myself. Of course, I start laughing, but only at their stupidity in thinking that they can get information out of me because I have a disability and that I may spill the beans because its something still quite new to me, but they got it wrong. I ain't telling them everything, I havn't even told them I sex twice without using a condom! Its their questioning of my personal life that helps me takes more risks. They should shut the hell up, I don't question them ever about what they get up to, even though I am the last of the 4 of us to get some action. NT's can be very very stupid sometimes, thinking they can control us Aspies. Dumb fools.

My father doesn't interfere in my personal life, being divorced from my mother and living 13 miles away, I don't always see him anyway, I don't tell him everything either.

Its my mother and sister who interfere. They know I am sexually active and sometimes ask me what I got up and asking me if I put the condom on myself. Of course, I start laughing, but only at their stupidity in thinking that they can get information out of me because I have a disability and that I may spill the beans because its something still quite new to me, but they got it wrong. I ain't telling them anything, I havn't even told them I sex twice without using a condom! Its their questioning of my personal life that helps me takes more risks. They should shut the hell up, I don't question them ever about what they get up to, even though I am the last of the 4 of us to get some action. NT's can be very very stupid sometimes, thinking they can control us Aspies. Dumb fools.

Something has to give, I find it highly immoral, highly disgusting and highly offensive that NT's won't let me have any privacy! I pay my taxes, just like they do, I go through hardships, just like they do and I sometimes have to go without, just like they do. So why do they feel superior, when everything points to my life being a lot easier then theirs. I have more then my entire family combined in terms of peace of mind, money and freedom. If anything, I am the superior one. Hell, they even said that if anyone was going to win the lottery, it would be me. What? me? The inferior one?! They need a reality check.

Physically comfortable. It wouldn't be awkward because something like that wouldn't just be rammed in there and left, It would be implanted.

[quote="Erisad"][quote="Seanmw"][quote="Erisad"][quote="Pistonhead"]It actually could probably be quite comfortable.[/quote]

In the physical sense or the awkward sense? Imagine the guy pulling out to find a microchip on his junk. It'd be a bit awkward for me anyway. Not to mention if it were to actually work in alerting my mom, I'd never want/could go home again apart from getting my stuff. D:[/quote]

omg, i can sooo picture that xD!

& it'd be especially funny if he turned out to be the super paranoid type who thought the government was monitoring him, and all that shizz, etc.
and so suddenly he pulls out and finds a nanochip stuck to his pecker
and totally flips a biscuit, and freaks the f#ck out [/quote]

Oh geez. This is starting to get a bit ridiculous [b]and I like it.[/b] XD[/quote]

you like it's gotten totally off-topic and turned from nosy parents to essentially just talk of mother-daughter lesbian incest & paranoid blather about nanochips and government conspiracies ???

You aren't a light sleeper when you're on anesthesia or otherwise drugged.

I don't feel so good.

They never bug me about having nobody. In fact they seem to have the attitude that since I'm so difficult to live with at home with them, that I'd be extra impossible to live with for anyone else. They do not volunteer advice, either.

Mom used to wish I'd get married out of frustration, just to get me out of the house. Which was amusing in a way because she knew full well I didn't have even REMOTELY any prospects. She doesn't do that anymore. Now she just wishes I was on my own.

My parents don't ask me much about my love life, not that I have anyone at the moment *sighs*

I kinda wish they would encourage me to try, to be honest. It essentially never comes up. If they would ever say anything about how I should try to date or something, I would feel about 70% less nervous about the whole concept. For whatever reason, the thought of telling my parents that I have/had/will have a date is petrifying. I'm 90% sure they would be happy about that, but the uncertainty over their reaction is a huge hold back for me.