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18 Sep 2010, 7:27 pm

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Nope. I jumped ship on the date last night when I didn't feel a real connection with her. I could've used a bunch of lines and manufactured enough of a connection to get her into bed, but what's the point??? Also, I felt like she was a bit inexperienced and I would've totally ended up hurting her feelings if we proceeded with getting physical.


Oh my god.. you really are an ars*hole.. you don't sound very experienced either tbh if the women you're with complain that you're hurting them.

Jesus, get off your high horse. It's really unattractive.



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19 Sep 2010, 11:06 am

hale_bopp wrote:
roadGames wrote:
Nope. I jumped ship on the date last night when I didn't feel a real connection with her. I could've used a bunch of lines and manufactured enough of a connection to get her into bed, but what's the point??? Also, I felt like she was a bit inexperienced and I would've totally ended up hurting her feelings if we proceeded with getting physical.


Oh my god.. you really are an ars*hole.. you don't sound very experienced either tbh if the women you're with complain that you're hurting them.

Jesus, get off your high horse. It's really unattractive.


that girl would not allow foreplay ever, even when i told her i couldn't really enjoy things w/o foreplay. she wasn't attracted to me at that point, she just felt obligated to have sex with me after all those hours of therapy. she's the only one that's complained about me hurting her and taking too long during sex.



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19 Sep 2010, 5:31 pm

I think your problem is blaming your problems on other people instead of yourself.



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19 Sep 2010, 6:02 pm

Not really. That girl was a total b*tch that had been admitted to a mental hospital once before and she threatened to commit suicide the first time I tried to dump her. She didn't actually like me, she just liked my friendship and I was something to do over the summer. She used sex and physical affection to keep my companionship. She basically admitted this when we were breaking up. I literally never was attractive to this girl as she described me as "f*ckable cute" to her friends which is more or less saying that I'm just something she could put up with. The only reason I stuck with her was her massive desperation for me and that she would constantly tell me how I'm the best she's ever had. I felt good being needed by the girl all my friends wanted to get with.

Knowing this is good because I'm having a much harder time missing her when I know it was all fake and a result of neediness. I still feel like I was completely tooled around, though.

I do have some problems. I feel like I have something to prove since I spent the first 22 years of my life sexually dormant. I also have zilch self-esteem and no real love for myself. I have to seek it from other people and that girl provided a whole lot of lip service for me in that area. I also have massive problems with depression.