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28 Jun 2011, 2:52 pm

Erisad, reread my post (hint: "he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.")

Why are you even arguing?



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28 Jun 2011, 3:02 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad, reread my post (hint: "he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.")

Why are you even arguing?


Because there might not be anything to change at all. Some people just aren't ready until later when they and their peers are more mature.



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28 Jun 2011, 3:09 pm

Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad, reread my post (hint: "he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.")

Why are you even arguing?


Because there might not be anything to change at all. Some people just aren't ready until later when they and their peers are more mature.



If she/he's trying and ends up to be the only one in class with no gf/bf, then there's definitively something not right about him/her, regardless of the age. Changing things at an early age would be way easier than later, I am talking out my exp.



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28 Jun 2011, 3:13 pm

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No, I understand those teens' concerns, their social failures might a bad indication for their future.

If, let's say, all the class are dating and have bf/gfs while he/she is the only one single, then yes...he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.

I'd only tell those teens to not wait for too long before acting, do not wait for "things will become better at college" because this is totally not guaranteed and at the mid of the college you might find yourself telling "things will be better after college", and later "things will be better after finding a job"...nothing is guaranteed.

So the sooner you act the better.


I can understand..Your theory applies in the last sentence.

I was popular for my Cleopatra...I am lucky, in your sense :wink: But I don't like them, for I can get anyone of them if I want..

Absolutely agree yours. For I am so young, why should I waste time to wait, when I am beautiful?

When I was that age, I had several adult lovers...And one of them is an AS....



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28 Jun 2011, 3:25 pm

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No, I understand those teens' concerns, their social failures might a bad indication for their future.

If, let's say, all the class are dating and have bf/gfs while he/she is the only one single, then yes...he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.

I'd only tell those teens to not wait for too long before acting, do not wait for "things will become better at college" because this is totally not guaranteed and at the mid of the college you might find yourself telling "things will be better after college", and later "things will be better after finding a job"...nothing is guaranteed.

So the sooner you act the better.


I can understand..Your theory applies in the last sentence.

I was popular for my Cleopatra...I am lucky, in your sense :wink: But I don't like them, for I can get anyone of them if I want..

Absolutely agree yours. For I am so young, why should I waste time to wait, when I am beautiful?

When I was that age, I had several adult lovers...And one of them is an AS....


You keep talking about how beautiful you are, isn't it time to provide some proof? You might be some gay old hairy guy with a large belly.

And no, the Madhuri dixit pic won't trick me.



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28 Jun 2011, 3:27 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Erisad, reread my post (hint: "he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.")

Why are you even arguing?


Because there might not be anything to change at all. Some people just aren't ready until later when they and their peers are more mature.



If she/he's trying and ends up to be the only one in class with no gf/bf, then there's definitively something not right about him/her, regardless of the age. Changing things at an early age would be way easier than later, I am talking out my exp.


So even if there's 12 girls and 13 boys in a particular class, the fact that the thirteenth boy can't get a girlfriend means he's a complete failure and must adjust his character? Some people aren't fit for the areas they live in. I'm a liberal girl who hates rap music, country music and sports. This made me a black sheep in my school. So...yeah. Some people prosper in different areas. You shouldn't change who you are just because you aren't getting laid. :/



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28 Jun 2011, 3:29 pm

Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad, reread my post (hint: "he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.")

Why are you even arguing?


Because there might not be anything to change at all. Some people just aren't ready until later when they and their peers are more mature.



If she/he's trying and ends up to be the only one in class with no gf/bf, then there's definitively something not right about him/her, regardless of the age. Changing things at an early age would be way easier than later, I am talking out my exp.


So even if there's 12 girls and 13 boys in a particular class, the fact that the thirteenth boy can't get a girlfriend means he's a complete failure and must adjust his character? Some people aren't fit for the areas they live in. I'm a liberal girl who hates rap music, country music and sports. This made me a black sheep in my school. So...yeah. Some people prosper in different areas. You shouldn't change who you are just because you aren't getting laid. :/


You do realize that most teen girls date guys older than them and not guys of their class, do you? And again, you are too narrowing things to sex and getting laid.



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28 Jun 2011, 3:34 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad, reread my post (hint: "he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.")

Why are you even arguing?


Because there might not be anything to change at all. Some people just aren't ready until later when they and their peers are more mature.



If she/he's trying and ends up to be the only one in class with no gf/bf, then there's definitively something not right about him/her, regardless of the age. Changing things at an early age would be way easier than later, I am talking out my exp.


So even if there's 12 girls and 13 boys in a particular class, the fact that the thirteenth boy can't get a girlfriend means he's a complete failure and must adjust his character? Some people aren't fit for the areas they live in. I'm a liberal girl who hates rap music, country music and sports. This made me a black sheep in my school. So...yeah. Some people prosper in different areas. You shouldn't change who you are just because you aren't getting laid. :/


You do realize that most teen girls date guys older than them and not guys of their class, do you? And again, you are too narrowing things to sex and getting laid.


It was just an example of an environment and the point still stands. And isn't getting laid one of the greatest things to happen to a guy? Why do you think virgins get chastised so much by other guys? Most guys want to get laid just so they don't have to labled as a virgin and be more socially accepted. Of course if a girl has sex in high school, then that makes her a whore. Ugh. :/



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28 Jun 2011, 6:56 pm

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29 Jun 2011, 12:17 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
metaphysics wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
No, I understand those teens' concerns, their social failures might a bad indication for their future.

If, let's say, all the class are dating and have bf/gfs while he/she is the only one single, then yes...he has the right to get worried and to start doubting things and try to fix them, especially if he/she doesn't want to remain like that.

I'd only tell those teens to not wait for too long before acting, do not wait for "things will become better at college" because this is totally not guaranteed and at the mid of the college you might find yourself telling "things will be better after college", and later "things will be better after finding a job"...nothing is guaranteed.

So the sooner you act the better.


I can understand..Your theory applies in the last sentence.

I was popular for my Cleopatra...I am lucky, in your sense :wink: But I don't like them, for I can get anyone of them if I want..

Absolutely agree yours. For I am so young, why should I waste time to wait, when I am beautiful?

When I was that age, I had several adult lovers...And one of them is an AS....


You keep talking about how beautiful you are, isn't it time to provide some proof? You might be some gay old hairy guy with a large belly.

And no, the Madhuri dixit pic won't trick me.


+1.

I bet she's a fat white guy.



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29 Jun 2011, 2:49 am

Nothing happened for me in high school, especially in the area of education


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29 Jun 2011, 3:15 am

I didn't really want anything to happen in secondary school beyond my instincts, and none of the girls I was interested in would have allowed my instincts to go any further anyway. I wasn't under any peer pressure though, I was perfectly aware that, whilst about 20% of my year group are out partying and maybe 15% have had sex (though I doubt it is that many), the majority weren't, don't and haven't.

Very few of my friends have had girlfriends or boyfriends. In fact... I reckon two of my female "friends" (using the word liberally) have had boyfriends, and both of them are attractive so didn't need to put much effort in, and again three of my male friends (don't need to be liberal using it that time, because none of my "friends" have had girlfriends), though one of those three has only dated the two girls.



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29 Jun 2011, 8:07 am

I went on one date during high school, and I asked the guy (it was a girl-ask-guy dance). I really hope college isn't like that, I'm gonna try to be more outgoing.



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29 Jun 2011, 8:25 am

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I went on one date during high school, and I asked the guy (it was a girl-ask-guy dance). I really hope college isn't like that, I'm gonna try to be more outgoing.


College was a lot better for me. Get involved in clubs and stuff and you'll meet some like-minded people who you can hang with. :)



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29 Jun 2011, 10:28 am

Why would you want to be like most people anyway? Sex w/o marriage is evil and sinful, they will get their just do after their life ends. They do it because they have no self control, to make other people feel jealous, and to make themselves feel superior to other people.



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Why would you want to be like most people anyway? Sex w/o marriage is evil and sinful, they will get their just do after their life ends. They do it because they have no self control, to make other people feel jealous, and to make themselves feel superior to other people.


*facepalm*