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14 Sep 2011, 1:44 pm

I'm still a virgin, but I was in a situation somewhat like this with a girl I had met only online. Although we never met, we used each other to get off sexual pleasures by doing stuff and showing stuff online. I saw it as a means for me to have a friendship but also a way to get rid of just some biological needs, but even though she never fully showed the equivalent of what she asked me to show several times a week, and despite the fact that we never once physically met, she became very emotionally attached to me and I just ended everything and eventually cut contact with her. Haven't really done anything like that since, because people tend to become too attached or just don't care about the person they are doing it with. While I have wondered if I would do the same thing online with a girl again, I'd prefer to not have full sex unless it is with someone I care about.


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14 Sep 2011, 2:10 pm

Get him into your bed, that's all you need. But don't start a relationship with someone who did that to his ex lol



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14 Sep 2011, 2:26 pm

smudge wrote:
Nadir wrote:
Get him into your bed, that's all you need. But don't start a relationship with someone who did that to his ex lol


Lol! Although that would probably work, I don't like the idea of having to trick someone slightly to get together with them. I'd rather they chose to get together with me. Though I suppose it wouldn't be like I was forcing him, would it?!

If he is easy enough to be seduced by you, then he might be easy enough to be seduced by everyone.


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14 Sep 2011, 2:28 pm

The ideal is mutal willing to get together, if you pull ihm towards you then you might seem a little desperate. However, if you don't pull him to you, you won't get.... a relationship lol

But I wouldn't recommend a relationship with someone who doesn't know what to choose, I like people who know what they want, otherwise you will have to fight against his fear the rest of your life. Bleh, go get someone else, I bet there are tons of hot and smart guys like me out there. 8)



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14 Sep 2011, 2:29 pm

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Well, I've found a cute guy, who likes me back. But he's taken, and is too considerate to dump her. What to do?



How is potentially cheating on her being considerate? :?
or am i misunderstanding?



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14 Sep 2011, 2:32 pm

Nadir wrote:
The ideal is mutal willing to get together, if you pull ihm towards you then you might seem a little desperate. However, if you don't pull him to you, you won't get.... a relationship lol

But I wouldn't recommend a relationship with someone who doesn't know what to choose, I like people who know what they want, otherwise you will have to fight against his fear the rest of your life. Bleh, go get someone else, I bet there are tons of hot and smart guys like me out there. 8)


Just focus girl, focus. lol



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14 Sep 2011, 2:32 pm

smudge wrote:
emlion wrote:
smudge wrote:
Well, I've found a cute guy, who likes me back. But he's taken, and is too considerate to dump her. What to do?



How is potentially cheating on her being considerate? :?
or am i misunderstanding?


How can it possibly be cheating if he dumps her?


You said he is taken and too considerate to dump her...?



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14 Sep 2011, 2:45 pm

Grrr, Grrrr. Someone got angry lol :twisted:

There are other ways to relieve sexual wishes or tension that you have though, you know, instead of typing... lol :cheers:



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14 Sep 2011, 2:53 pm

Well if that guy is not a good option for whatever reasons, then either masturbate thinking of him OR just have a sexual relationship with him, you could be his lover. :roll:



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