21 years old and hopeless????

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But of course! You're obviously perfect as you are now and it's not your fault that women aren't interested in you. Anyone who succeeds with women is doing so dishonestly because it's impossible to do it honestly. It's nothing at all to do with making some effort to change or actually do something.

MR20, being a selfish, arrogant prick is called "youth", and we've all been there. But that's why women aren't interested. Learning to recognise your faults and deal with them is a big part of growing up - if you pull that off, you'll no longer be so hung up on the subject of women. And, bizarrely, that will help you land them.

Well if there are any Aspie Support groups in your area, I suggest that you join them, I am 42, in decent shape and a virgin, who has never had a girlfriend, so let my life at least be a cautionary tale.

I would not say you're hopeless, at 21. Plenty of people are just late bloomers.

I am starting to believe I am hopeless, however. Being 29 and a half years old, and never having had a girlfriend. There comes a point where it goes beyond late bloomer, and just becomes off putting and creepy to women.

You are not hopeless at 21, period. That's what I thought back then and then I met her...

One thing I know is that you need a lot of focus, care & effort to correctly deal with woman. You need to take it seriously, like when you have a date prepare etc. And go all out.