What does "I love you" mean (to you)?

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LoveHim
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24 Jul 2012, 11:30 am

@yellow tamarin- love your rubberband explanation. i think most relationships last less than 10 years. a rubberband lasts longer.



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24 Jul 2012, 12:13 pm

yellowtamarin wrote:
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Well... Don't really say it to friends as we say it jokingly as such...
was no feeling then.
As a partner though, it's like some kind of meaningful bond that lasts as long as a rubber band.

How long does a rubber band last?

Until you stretch it too far and it snaps. If you never stretch it, it will be limp and useless. If you keep it stretched at just the right amount, it should last for as long as there is something to hold together. Even then there is no guarantee though, as some rubber bands just get too old and fall apart on their own, for no other reason than holding on for too long.

(I believe the standard rubber band, if used appropriately, lasts ~10 years.)


You haven't been vulcanising them properly. :shameonyou:

Keep your relationship away from ozone because that's the main culprit. You could keep it in a plastic bag with a few iron filings added to take out the oxygen. Better, create covalent bonding and build sulphur bridges across as many cure sites as you can, to give the relationship good dynamic properties. Impregnate with carbon to absorb the UV and inhibit oxidation.



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24 Jul 2012, 12:21 pm

ToughDiamond, hee! Love chemistry, miss it terribly.

On topic - to me, "I love you" means (or should mean) "I've got your back."



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24 Jul 2012, 1:21 pm

Alright who started all this rubber band nonsense in this thread?
*scans thread*
Oh... Bummer!
Too much strain can snap the band, Too loose means it is losing value.
Also if it's not fresh and is tested thoroughly, it will deteriorate (like rust but much easier to pull apart than straining the band.)
So it's important to keep the band fresh and energetic.


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24 Jul 2012, 1:26 pm

So, since I can't shoot a rubber band without it just snapping back on my own fingers... does that have some deep significance to my ability in the relationship department?


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24 Jul 2012, 2:40 pm

Haven't you ever flung a rubber-band towards someone else that way? Now they're stuck with it!


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24 Jul 2012, 5:33 pm

I always cover my eyes and cower when someone points a rubber band at me. I'm probably missing out on something special.



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24 Jul 2012, 5:36 pm

If it's a family member, it means that I mean a lot to them.

If it's a female, it means that the person is (sexually) interested in me.



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24 Jul 2012, 10:49 pm

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25 Jul 2012, 12:50 am

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I agree with you completely.


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