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03 Oct 2012, 11:50 pm

I know I will always be alone. I may try to date, but I can't even get someone to go out with me once, let alone a girlfriend. It doesn't matter if I can get the girl to laugh at my jokes, make eye contact, etc. in the end, they never want anything to do with me. Thus, I am doomed. It feels like there is an invisible force field around my life that keeps women from ever wanting anything to do with me.

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04 Oct 2012, 6:48 am

We should start a League of Undesirable Men (LUM for short). :idea: I'll be the president since it was my idea.

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04 Oct 2012, 7:29 am

DialAForAwesome wrote:

We should start a League of Undesirable Men (LUM for short). :idea:

I'll be the president since it was my idea.

Does that mean i can't join?

Being rejected from the undesirables would be rough.

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04 Oct 2012, 8:24 am

Kjas wrote:

DialAForAwesome wrote:

We should start a League of Undesirable Men (LUM for short). :idea:

I'll be the president since it was my idea.

Does that mean i can't join?

Being rejected from the undesirables would be rough.

There's two reasons I wanna make the group:

1. I'm a man
2. I like the acronym "LUM" because I'm an Urusei Yatsura fan (Lum is the name of the main character in that series)

You can join if you want. It's open to anyone.

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04 Oct 2012, 5:10 pm

*shrug*

Fair enough!

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04 Oct 2012, 5:21 pm

Kjas wrote:

*shrug*

Fair enough!

We can create the LOL, League of Odd Ladies.

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04 Oct 2012, 7:55 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

We should start a League of Undesirable Men (LUM for short). :idea:

I'll be the president since it was my idea.

you ignore people's pms so you don;t deserve to be president lol.

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04 Oct 2012, 8:39 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

DialAForAwesome wrote:

We should start a League of Undesirable Men (LUM for short). :idea:

I'll be the president since it was my idea.

you ignore people's pms so you don;t deserve to be president lol.

I didn't even know you sent me any PMs. Usually if I get PMs I just ignore them because everywhere else I go they are usually spam.

I'm with BanjoGirl on the League of Odd Ladies.

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04 Oct 2012, 8:42 pm

Ah ha! So you don't want girls in your club. I see how it is :lol:

Silly gender divisions. :roll:

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04 Oct 2012, 8:53 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Can we merge them? LUMLOL or LOLLUM or something? :wink:

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04 Oct 2012, 9:43 pm

Yeah, I'd rather not be part of a sausage fest. Maybe I could just sneak into the LOL...

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04 Oct 2012, 9:45 pm

It does kind of ruin your acronym doesn't it?

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05 Oct 2012, 12:30 am

DialAForAwesome wrote:

I went from, in the span of five minutes, from having some hope back to being a dateless loser. I'm now convinced I will be alone forever. I'd like to be proven wrong, but knowing how my life works, I'll either end up with someone and then find out I'm about to die, or I'll end up with an unappealing she-beast with a terrible personality. Yippee. Can hardly wait.

just breaks my heart

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05 Oct 2012, 12:49 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

:lol:

Can we merge them? LUMLOL or LOLLUM or something? :wink:

Lollum sounds like "Gollum" and that's something that definitely we don't need :roll:

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08 Oct 2012, 2:25 am

I'l join this thread since I've felt like this before, I always had the mentality of I wish some girl would come and notice me or start talking to me, but of course being the man means most of the time you have to make the approach first if not they lose interest. I've suprised myself in the past by saying a only a few words to a girl then they are pretty interested in me, the sad thing is because of my weird self I never followed through or got nervous or misundstood them, and I can count with my hands the times this has happened.

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08 Oct 2012, 5:12 am

Yep, forever alone here. Never kissed a girl, never held a girl's hand. And recently turned 30. Yeah, I must be one of the older forever alones here. Even for an Aspie, I'm an anomaly. I see stories on these forums of Aspies having gfs in their twenties. There must be something very wrong with me.

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