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22 Oct 2012, 2:03 pm

While I usually find myself more attracted to athletic women, the most beautiful women I have seen so far were all rather chubby, if that makes any sense.


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22 Oct 2012, 2:09 pm

I've been called good looking a lot, but despite of that I still give myself a 2/10 at max and I doubt I will ever raise that score.

I get good comments only because most people I meet in life don't have the f*****g balls to tell me I'm just plain f*****g ugly.



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22 Oct 2012, 2:50 pm

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22 Oct 2012, 4:48 pm

Taverson wrote:
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Yes, a woman can be fat and attractive if she has a very pretty face with no double chin and a waist that's smaller than her chest (hourglass figure), like Christina Hendricks.

(I'm talking about just looks here.)


How dare you.. Adele has a double chin and I think is one of the most beautiful celebrities alive!

Beyond that, what is Size 14-16... not familiar with female clothes sizes so I can't make an informed reply to the OP.


Adele has a double chin? You call that a double chin? Ok if you say so...



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22 Oct 2012, 6:07 pm

starryeyedvoyager wrote:
While I usually find myself more attracted to athletic women, the most beautiful women I have seen so far were all rather chubby, if that makes any sense.


This is how it happens for me too. Hell, the girl I really like now isn't necessarily "chubby" but she isn't skinny either. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life. The fact that she's not some wafer-thin girl makes her more beautiful to me.

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I've been called good looking a lot, but despite of that I still give myself a 2/10 at max and I doubt I will ever raise that score.

I get good comments only because most people I meet in life don't have the f***ing balls to tell me I'm just plain f***ing ugly.


I get called good-looking, but mostly by older women. And when I say older, I mean old enough to be my mom, at least. I have gotten a couple of slightly younger girls who have thought I was "cute" but I have to wonder if they were lying. It didn't matter anyway because both of those girls are taken. Although there is one girl at my work (who is 19 years old) who likes to call me "doll-face" a lot for some reason. I don't know what planet I look like a doll on, but okay. :lol: Outside of those few, I get called ugly all the time. You'd think having a baby face automatically means you're cute, but I guess not.


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22 Oct 2012, 6:26 pm

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While I usually find myself more attracted to athletic women, the most beautiful women I have seen so far were all rather chubby, if that makes any sense.


This is how it happens for me too. Hell, the girl I really like now isn't necessarily "chubby" but she isn't skinny either. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life. The fact that she's not some wafer-thin girl makes her more beautiful to me.

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I've been called good looking a lot, but despite of that I still give myself a 2/10 at max and I doubt I will ever raise that score.

I get good comments only because most people I meet in life don't have the f***ing balls to tell me I'm just plain f***ing ugly.


I get called good-looking, but mostly by older women. And when I say older, I mean old enough to be my mom, at least. I have gotten a couple of slightly younger girls who have thought I was "cute" but I have to wonder if they were lying. It didn't matter anyway because both of those girls are taken. Although there is one girl at my work (who is 19 years old) who likes to call me "doll-face" a lot for some reason. I don't know what planet I look like a doll on, but okay. :lol: Outside of those few, I get called ugly all the time. You'd think having a baby face automatically means you're cute, but I guess not.

If only people got the balls to say that to me.

I think if only one person ever called you ugly once in your lifetime, you can bet your ass 1/10 of the world population finds you as ugly too.



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22 Oct 2012, 6:33 pm

Uprising wrote:
DialAForAwesome wrote:
starryeyedvoyager wrote:
While I usually find myself more attracted to athletic women, the most beautiful women I have seen so far were all rather chubby, if that makes any sense.


This is how it happens for me too. Hell, the girl I really like now isn't necessarily "chubby" but she isn't skinny either. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life. The fact that she's not some wafer-thin girl makes her more beautiful to me.

Uprising wrote:
I've been called good looking a lot, but despite of that I still give myself a 2/10 at max and I doubt I will ever raise that score.

I get good comments only because most people I meet in life don't have the f***ing balls to tell me I'm just plain f***ing ugly.


I get called good-looking, but mostly by older women. And when I say older, I mean old enough to be my mom, at least. I have gotten a couple of slightly younger girls who have thought I was "cute" but I have to wonder if they were lying. It didn't matter anyway because both of those girls are taken. Although there is one girl at my work (who is 19 years old) who likes to call me "doll-face" a lot for some reason. I don't know what planet I look like a doll on, but okay. :lol: Outside of those few, I get called ugly all the time. You'd think having a baby face automatically means you're cute, but I guess not.

If only people got the balls to say that to me.

I think if only one person ever called you ugly once in your lifetime, you can bet your ass 1/10 of the world population finds you as ugly too.
i was called ugly all the time through school =\


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22 Oct 2012, 8:28 pm

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If only people got the balls to say that to me.

I think if only one person ever called you ugly once in your lifetime, you can bet your ass 1/10 of the world population finds you as ugly too.


This would mean, in my case, that probably 90% of the world would find me ugly. But where I live, every guy looks like a movie star compared to me, so of course I'll be found ugly anyways. :?


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23 Oct 2012, 6:47 pm

Not to sound rude, but have you tried losing weight through diet/exercise?

I can recommend a few things if you want to PM me.


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23 Oct 2012, 10:28 pm

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Not to sound rude, but have you tried losing weight through diet/exercise?

I can recommend a few things if you want to PM me.


The best and most reliable way. Also a very long way. You can do it though!



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23 Oct 2012, 11:19 pm

Post some pics.


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23 Oct 2012, 11:24 pm

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I don't believe it.

I know I used to be a super hottie when I was thinner. This because I would be hit on constantly.


Wow, talk about tooting your own horn. Just because a guy hits on you doesn't make you hot. You could be ugly and guys could still hit on you.

The point of this thread is to get some confirmation that I can be fat and attractive!

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23 Oct 2012, 11:49 pm

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24 Oct 2012, 11:07 am

First of all

yes I have considered loosing weight. But since I don't like to eat (yes I know that sounds paradoxical) and I hate cooking coupled with some serious executive functioning problems..... Well it's a problem.

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yes it's possible to be fat and attractive! I have done my research and come to the conclusion that it is possible. But it's not for everyone.

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Tooting my own horn? Eh ok what ever. I simply stated a fact. I was a hottie when I was in my early twenties and thinner. I have pictures that I can objectively look at now that I don't look like that anymore. No you don't get hit on if you're not attractive. If that was the case I would still be getting hit on as much as back then wouldn't I.
Also what was your intention with writing something like that? It's my thread that I started to figure out something that I have been thinking about. It's not very productive and also it's disrespectful to put people down like that. If you don't have something useful to stay stay out of it!



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24 Oct 2012, 12:59 pm

Salome wrote:
First of all

yes I have considered loosing weight. But since I don't like to eat (yes I know that sounds paradoxical) and I hate cooking coupled with some serious executive functioning problems..... Well it's a problem.

Second

yes it's possible to be fat and attractive! I have done my research and come to the conclusion that it is possible. But it's not for everyone.

Third

Tooting my own horn? Eh ok what ever. I simply stated a fact. I was a hottie when I was in my early twenties and thinner. I have pictures that I can objectively look at now that I don't look like that anymore. No you don't get hit on if you're not attractive. If that was the case I would still be getting hit on as much as back then wouldn't I.
Also what was your intention with writing something like that? It's my thread that I started to figure out something that I have been thinking about. It's not very productive and also it's disrespectful to put people down like that. If you don't have something useful to stay stay out of it!
You said you would post pics. Where are they? You are tooting your own horn because you know that you are not attractive anymore and want us to lie to you..or else you would post pics. Buckle down and lose weight or you don't deserve a bf.


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24 Oct 2012, 1:28 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
Salome wrote:
First of all

yes I have considered loosing weight. But since I don't like to eat (yes I know that sounds paradoxical) and I hate cooking coupled with some serious executive functioning problems..... Well it's a problem.

Second

yes it's possible to be fat and attractive! I have done my research and come to the conclusion that it is possible. But it's not for everyone.

Third

Tooting my own horn? Eh ok what ever. I simply stated a fact. I was a hottie when I was in my early twenties and thinner. I have pictures that I can objectively look at now that I don't look like that anymore. No you don't get hit on if you're not attractive. If that was the case I would still be getting hit on as much as back then wouldn't I.
Also what was your intention with writing something like that? It's my thread that I started to figure out something that I have been thinking about. It's not very productive and also it's disrespectful to put people down like that. If you don't have something useful to stay stay out of it!
You said you would post pics. Where are they? You are tooting your own horn because you know that you are not attractive anymore and want us to lie to you..or else you would post pics. Buckle down and lose weight or you don't deserve a bf.


Big fat sigh! Yes the pun is intended.
I said and I quote " I could link some pics I guess" Didn't say I would. I don't like the idea of having my picture on the net.
As for the rest of your comments BS! You my dear are a bully and I'm not going to read nor answer your comment anymore.