is it possible for women to be single

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Janissy, you may have provided evidence of your claim, however I do not agree with it. At no point did I once consider the 'message' of wearing tracksuit bottoms and a white tee after work, I did so, because they first in the drawer and I'm cold. Was. Now nicely warm.

Still my point is this:
even with this message, or whatever, that is supposedly being sent, does not equal the whole or accurate reflection of a person. You can't judge a book by the cover, or blurbs, or reviews, or opinions, you just have to purchase it and invest time reading it and come to your own conclusion.
Yet women seem to think differently to this. They seem to think they don't need to purchase or read the book, and then tell the author how he should of wrote it.

I believe that the OP looks at the courting/dating scene like this:

Guys have to make a lot of effort to approach
Girls have to make a lot of effort to decline approaches.

Therefore OP is saying that if Women didn't decline every approach made, they would not be single.
Yet it is the opposite for guys who have to constantly approach or they will never be in a relationship.

i dont think he actually means boyfriend. I thin h is saying that all girls can gt laid just bc thy have a vagina. I must admit my stance on this is the same it's always been but I am starting to empathize with the females more. While getting access to sex 24/7 is good it's not good if yo\u arn't into the person so i understand what the females man by that. On the other hand,any good guys-can't get Sex from anybody lol.

I think it's more that they just don't have the time to read every book out there, so they need some way to choose which they're gonna bother reading.

She doesn't think she has superhuman powers that allow her to figure out every man's entire personality within minutes of meeting him. But, if she were to take the time to really get to know evry guy who approached her, she'd have no time left to live her own life.

So she has to find some means of filtering through them. And, yeah, this means that some worthwhile guys aren't gonna get a chance with her. But there isn't really any reasonable way to give every guy a chance.

wtfid2, read the original post again. He says nothing about sex.

He can't understand how any woman can be single NOT BY CHOICE. (And he considers being picky is by choice)

I found it contradicting that the op also made the thread called "men what type of women would you avoid?"

yes i got that, but istill think he meant sex deep down.

Alot of them seem to to get into relationship very easily

I am single, I would like to have a relationship but I feel like I am too f****d in the head. I suppose I am afraid no one would want to deal with me the way I am. So yes I crave a close relationship but it seems impossible to get one. I've had boyfriends but nothing that ever really lasted. So yes there are lonely single girls if that is what you are asking.

maybe women can get a ''date'' easy but that doesn't mean they are going find the right type of man.
Alot for women even though they date. They always end up with jerks or the relationship never last.
Sometimes a woman might have some issues and is not bad looking, so a guy will ask her out and she will say yes
but after a month the man leaves her because of her issues. Thing like that happen. But for a woman to be totaly dateless
like never ever gone on date. I not so sure if that's possible? (for women who wants a date)

The real question is why the f**k do yall care so much. Find it unfair? Sucks to be you then. Enjoy being paid more for the same work. Unfairness tends to balance itself out.

Now now, Sir or Madame. A great deal of individuals desire and crave companionship. It is not like individuals sit down and go, "I am going to choose to feel alone so I can be miserable." I wouldn't personally fault *anyone* for wanting a partner, because that would make me a hypocrite considering I do wish to find a girlfriend that can deal with my Asperger's. Some individuals can be happy with being single, others want a partner to experience happiness. Individuals who have never experienced a relationship or love are likely curious as to how it feels. Yes, I know that some would say; "If you hold yourself up in your room all day being a recluse then you have no reason to complain." That begs the question. What if there are no areas to socialize in the real world at? What if you have crippling sensory issues? There are tons of factors to consider.

Guys, it takes a lot more and a lot of different things to make women fall in love. Of course, they have the rare "love at first sight" things, but it's only for the upper 0.00001% of guys, in terms of looks, whereas many guys can fall for just looking at the girl next store.

So, of course, any woman can DATE or have sex with a guy in 30 minutes or less. Finding love? It takes moving mountains. And, we're the ones who have to do it.

And, it's always been like that. How many things have been built, wars been had, lives been lost, over the love of a woman? It's part of what drives mankind forward. So, accept it, suck it up, use the big brains we all have, and let's do this!

Im a guy. But most here seem to either forget or ignore many variables in the sex/relationship game. ill admit any girl can get laid, if she has no standards.
If this woman could find a guy to get her pregnant any can.

The thing is shes likely not going to get any if shes looking for supermodels. Which is also something that can be said about many guys here. Ill bring one up, wtfid2, He claims he does get women interested in him, but he has higher standards than what they are. Then he complains he cant get laid. (sorry but its the truth). And then comes to threads like this one to bash women for being able to get laid more easily. While on the average spectrum its true women can get sex a lot more easily it doesnt mean guys cant get sex either. Last I checked it takes two to have sex, though the woman in that gif could have a threeway all by herself

Oh no. Not /her/ loathe that show, but it's like watching a train wreck. Sorry for the madame thing since you are, indeed, a male. With the OP I did previously tell him that it's naive and sexist to presume and make assumptions that women can only be voluntarily celibate and can apparently conjure men they are interested in from thin air. If women are interested in him and he turns them all down. That's... kind of on him. Hopefully he finds what ever it is he's looking for. I may have misunderstood your post; I thought it was directed towards everyone who is irritated with the prospect of lonliness.

there's no guarantee that the women who act interested online would have sex with me, even the ugly ones. most are flaky worthless gutter sluts.(truth)

...Someone is a slut for not having sex with you?