First infatuation - how old were you?

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Rosstifer
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29 Dec 2006, 7:39 pm

17,

I fancied this girl in college and I still do (21) and my god was she amazing her personality, her looks they were perfect and was someone who I would have loved to have as a gf but I was always too shy and nervous around her and was always pondering what to say and worried about if I was going to say the wrong thing. But to this day she brings a smile to my face whenever I feel down or stressed out with university work I think about her and wonder "what coud have been..."



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29 Dec 2006, 11:04 pm

I was five, and I liked a girl whose name was the feminine of my brother's.


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29 Dec 2006, 11:32 pm

First or second grade. A girl named Jessica. When she came to the same high school I transferred to, she was the same person, but was too popular for me. Sadly, she gravitated towards the bad crowd. In just a couple of years, she was a completely different person, and now she's married to a used car salesman who's much older than her. So, no Montel episode here, most likely.



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30 Dec 2006, 12:15 am

6 years old, 5 years, Dawn, brown hair just past shoulders, had saviour asthma on one of them smoke mask machines, wearied reading glass's, hazel eye's, lived with both parents, had sister, & brother... I can go into high detail but you get the point....

Reason we split she wanted sex I didn't.... great relationship up until that point...


Ticker I think its parents having x as this girl was the oldest of the 3... would not say they done it infront probably in the bed room witht he bed going and the noise...

Mind you we did have a sex-ed class round about 8 or so or was it 10 at school



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30 Dec 2006, 8:04 am

At about 12, I think. But I had hung around girls for a while before then. Not that I was popular with them, I just used to follow them around. I guess I felt safer around them than around the boisterous males. That would also explain why I hung around kindergartens while in my final year of primary school.



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30 Dec 2006, 9:12 am

13, when I dated a girl called Rachael. We went out for two years, then her parents decided to not like me and that was the end of that. :)



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31 Dec 2006, 2:56 am

I was 7 years old. I don't remember her name, nor do I care. I still do it , and it annoys the hell out of me, but I tend to obsess over beauty, and interesting things, so it's just the beauty I go obsessive over, nothing else. Now if I met a girl who likes outdoors, is a total science geek, speaks her mind, is Christian, and obsesses as well. I may actually be truelly interested. Other than that it's just my love of all that is beautiful in this world, such as certain prokaryotic microbes in the right lighting under a microscope. I love microscopy. :D



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31 Dec 2006, 8:17 am

Hi,

i think i was 12 by then. Her name is cinthya. Two years ago i went back to that town where i used to live and i thied to see her again. I walked down her street but she´s not htere anymore a hitnk. Sure she got married and got a life.

Well i am glad to see people who are like me. Regards,

Victor



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31 Dec 2006, 11:46 am

MAN, I FORGET how young I was, but I was YOUNG! They say all sorts of things about young boys that weren't true about me. YEAH, I was infatuated with a few girls LONG before I was even 9. Heck, I had one friend, I wasn't infatuated with her, but she was a friend and we went to school together, so everyone made fun about her being my "girl friend". We used to have this saying, that I would parrot. "She is a girl, and my friend, but not my "girl friend"."

They would tease girls also, but it was more acceptable with girls. Just look at dennis the menace! Margaret is always trying to get dennis to go with her, and dennis and his friends berate it. Still, my class mates, TV, and things I read seemed to indicate that couldn't happen until later. STUPID, I know, but....

HEY, books and TV were really all I had! NO computers! NO internet! 8-(

(tangental rant and TMI removed)

There ARE different types of appreciation(let's put it that way) for beauty. It doesn't always have to be sexual. I guess THAT is another way in which I am different from how some say I should be.

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02 Jan 2007, 9:20 am

15. How old I am now. :P



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08 Jan 2007, 1:20 pm

I was about 14. I'm still "infatuated" with her. She's really pretty, very sweet. One of the few people that wasn't a jerk when I was in Jr. High.



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09 Jan 2007, 11:36 am

Thirteen or fourteen... she was way outta my league :lol:



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09 Jan 2007, 4:13 pm

At 6 - 7 years of age.



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09 Jan 2007, 7:05 pm

12, I was smitten. :lol:


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09 Jan 2007, 10:56 pm

third grade i think...his name was brandon and he was the cutest boy ever....big brown eyes (i've always been a sucker for those!), gelled-back light brown hair, and he had this thing for turtlenecks and jeans... he had a country accent that i just entirely died for...

l've only ever liked maybe a handful of people.... ever. i think i've only maybe ever liked 5 men who have left me so breathless i thought i could've died...lol... and i'm caught in the middle of my heart by two of them riiiighhttt now..lol pathethic innit?



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10 Jan 2007, 12:42 am

caramel wrote:
third grade i think...his name was brandon and he was the cutest boy ever....big brown eyes (i've always been a sucker for those!), gelled-back light brown hair, and he had this thing for turtlenecks and jeans... he had a country accent that i just entirely died for...


That is a pretty close description of me when I was in fourth grade. I still have brown eyes, brown hair, wear jeans and have a western accent. I don't gel my hair anymore. My eyes aren't quite brown though, they start out that way in the morning but when I go to bed they are more of a green colour. Is changing eyecolour normal?