Dancing is a great way to have fun with women.

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just ask a black guy how to dance if you dont know how.

Or Rick Astley. Both at the same time would be better.

Indeed. You wouldn't want to dance like THIS with somebody unless there was extreme mutual attraction:

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You just love to dig trouble and offense, do you?

I love to return the favor yes . The people that don't stick up for themselves in this world are the ones that get played.

Ha...as if I could ever have any kind of rhythm.

Also, there's no way any woman would ever be my partner. Not even if there wasn't anyone left. Nobody wants to be that close to me. I look bad enough from a distance.

Definitely not. That's what fascinates me when I go to a salsa party. I see all of those gorgeous ladies dancing really intimately with, well, not the most attractive guys. I wonder what goes through their minds at that time. They must REALLY like dancing.

That's cause you only see what you want to see.

Because they're dancing, not having sex.

Sure, but like Molly said I would not want to dance intimately with someone that I consider unattractive. I think it has to with it that I already find bodily contact with strangers a very difficult thing, never mind dancing close with someone.

Shall we dance?

Well, I how can I refuse an offer when it's made by the face of

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Let's make it a tomorrow though, because I will need some rest before I can dance

Usually you're allowed to bring a partner to dance with. Why not bring your boyfriend or something?

I'm not sure how pointless movements and gyrations is meant to be "fun" sounds like a waste of time to me if you feel you mus,t make sure you are good at it nobody wants to look like a #$%K do they now ?


When ever I see such people I feel like their rubbing their "talent" in my face , esp so when I see those B_ Boys I think is that meant to get you laid? , really haven't you got better things to do with your time ?

God I'm nasty

pots kettles.

You're applying a mainstream American mindset to an activity that a lot of people don't consider to be sexual at all, like nude public baths in parts of Northern Europe. Everybody trusts each other to be adult about it, respect other people's boundaries, and follow the unwritten rules (which are pretty straightforward for the most part). In other words, for them, dancing is just another social interaction that requires a partner for it to be complete. And as long as you're a good dance partner---related to, but not the same as being a good dancer---you'll fit in just fine. Any kind of body contact is non-sexual (in the dance community's eyes, at least), usually double handhold or closed position. And oftentimes, it's driven by one's culture. For example, ...

Latin women see partner dancing with body contact as just another social interaction. It's just how they express themselves, get some exercise, and vent out stress from work. Plus, their culture is touch-heavy in general. Whenever Latin dancing takes place, everybody dances with everybody, be it friends or strangers. Of course, it goes without saying that there are boundaries to be respected when you're dancing with someone new: don't get too close, don't lead your partner through moves they have no idea about, and at least know the basic steps. If a girl agrees to dance with you, it's doesn't mean she's romantically interested, it does't mean she wants you to ask her out, and it may not even mean she wants to dance more than once song. What it does mean is that she trusts you to understand the unwritten rules, and feels comfortable sharing her enjoyment of dancing with you. Know these rules, and you'll be golden.

Eastern European women see partner dancing with body contact as an inherently intimate activity. They generally will engage in contact dancing only with their boyfriend or husband, their female friends, and guys they find very attractive. Everybody else will get a blunt "no". At times, you may be thrown a bone, and get to dance where you move to the music while standing 2 feet across from her, with no touching whatsoever. In my opinion, this kind of dancing feels very dry, almost clinical; I've done it myself. This is true at almost any public event where people dance with each other. Simply put, the barriers to entry are very high.

American women take some sort of middle ground between these two. The exact placement depends on her mood, your attractiveness level, and the social atmosphere of the venue or event. For the most part, it's hit or miss. But any place with partner dancing that doesn't have a heavy meat market feel gives aspie guys somewhat of a fair fighting chance. Again, don't dance too close with a new girl.

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