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What's the hell is HIS SECRET???

His "Secret" is ENABLING FEMALES who let him be himself which is a free-loading bum.
Didya notice how quick they are for making excuses and explanations for him. They take him because these woman have problems. He is what and who he is. It's sickening - it's as though he finds moms who he can shag. They act like his mom but shag him at the same time. Somehow this type of woman ALWAYS ends up with this kind of guy because they are truly his counterpart - a match made in HELL. You'll never see women like this with a decent guy - it's forever guys like him -complete wasters who are younger(most of the time) than these women - a "needy"boy toy to get laid with. It's the two women who are off. Now, he has two moms he can shag - or maybe we should say a mom and an auntie who he can shag. Next he'll find himself a sissie-poo he can shag too. SORRY gals who do this but it's the TRUTH!! This guy is NO GOOD! He won't leave, why should he? This parasite has found his host. It's you who must cut him loose so he doesn't suffocate the very life out of you - but when he finds a meatier host, he'll accuse you of suffocating him. And then, you'll try even harder to please "his highness". C'mon girls, get your head out of the gutter. Why is he in the hospital? One of his john's beat him up??

I don't care if this guy is Aspie or not and frankly it matters NOT ONE BIT.

He is abusive. He is financially and emotionally abusive. I would guess he's verbally abusive as well. I would also hazard a guess that's he's capable of physical abuse if he got really angry or threatened.

He is holding 'things of yours' on his hard drive? Dirty pictures??? Some kind of writings? Blackmail. He will NEVER delete those pictures. Even if you see him delete the files - he will have backups somewhere. So accept that fact and proceed as if whatever it is doesn't exist - because that's all you can do.

If he uses said things prosecute him for harassment.

Go and talk to a hotline about abuse or see a local women's shelter. You will not be the first case like this they've seen.

And don't worry about his debt problems to the NHS...there's very little chance that they'll go after him. And there may not be a way that they CAN go after him if his case was deemed a medical emergency. In fact they may call it a medical emergency just to write it off. I live in the UK, we pick up the tab for folks like him all the time.

You want advice? CUT all contact with him immediately and forever. Don't even accept a phone call. Block his texts. Set up a filter in your email that goes to a separate folder that you delete immediately. You owe him NOTHING. You didn't ruin his life. He ruined his life and the lives of others.

You should not feel the LEAST bit bad about contacting his ex.